I do not mean to offend anyone but after watching the Opra show on Friday I have been doing some serious thinking. (dangerous I know )
Both families featured discussed their journey to living full time female. Both considered themselves crossdressers. Both wive's accepted this and even stayed when they transitioned. Both mtf's stated that the urge to crossdress became stronger and stronger progressing to more frequent and more feminine. One claimed he could have been discribed as an efeminate male (his wife said not, she had no idea). One described the feeling as a rage burning within him. A feeling that he would explode if he did not make the transition.
All the while the wive's were thinking this was a phase or something. Obviously these feelings were not expressed to the spouse.
My question is, then what is the motivation to participate if participation will lead to more frequency and fine tunning , if you will. I think most gg's are willing participants to a point but it is not our thing. We go along because it means something to our spouse, so naturally, most would prefere the frequency to diminish not accelerate.
Is crossdressing transexual purgatory? Do crossdresseres participate in active denial that they really want to be women but do not have the nerve or the ability to do so? Or is crossdressing a form of harmless expression of a feminine side that men are not allowed to routinly express?
Kitty