This should be for crossdressers only, I suspect. I intend no disrespect to anyone by this thread, BUT.....
We have all heard or read " I want the man I married ".
This is somewhat confusing to me because I need to ask.
IE: Did you stop being the provider? Did you stop being the person that changes the oil in the car? Did you stop being the one who fixes the sink when it leaks? Did you stop changing the flat tire? And so many other things that men do. Did you stop loving your SO or your family? You get my point..
Perhaps we should regress to being a couch potato that drinks beer and watches sports all day.
In other words what is that you changed to make you NOT the man?
What is it that you are doing different? ( A can of worms I know)..