There has always been a terrific support group here for any number of situations. I appreciate and read all advice, even when the advice does not apply to my situation. This site has made me laugh, cry, understand view points that I would never have considered and has given me a place online where I can find a kinship with others that I have lacked for so long in my life. You are all special ladies to me. Thank you all for being there for me.
One thing I have noticed is that a lot of people on this forum tend to refer to themselves as a completely different individual when dressed. This seems foreign to me as I have never been able to think of myself as two different people. I am me, I am outwardly male (not by choice) and inwardly female. I have never been able to turn off the female side of me, nor have I ever wanted to. I can not remember a day when I hadn’t worn my emotions on my sleeve. I am not shy, but I am very quiet and observant in my day to day life. I believe these traits stem from my inwardly female outlook in life. There have been a number of times when people have told me that I remind them of a woman, although my 6’2” 240 lbs frame would indicate differently.
What I am curious about is how many others out there are like minded? Do you feel that you are the same person dressed or undressed? Can you empathize with a woman who cries on your shoulder and share a cry with her? Do you like to watch “chick flix”? Can you share your feelings with ease and when you do, do you feel better? Is your emotional well being more important to you than your physical or financial well being?
There are so many facets of cross dressing that there is never a “one answer solves all” solution. I know there are so many varieties of cross dressers out there that no two would ever be the same. I am just wondering if I am alone.
I wish you all the sincerest joy and sense of self worth. You are all important people to me and I love you all deeply. Thanks for reading.
Z