Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 25 of 39

Thread: Straight Women and Crossdressers

  1. #1
    Protector-from-Spiders Cai's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2007
    Posts
    2,662

    Straight Women and Crossdressers

    There's a boy in the girls' room!

    But this is actually very relevant to many of you, and so I wanted to tell you about it.

    I was having a conversation with a group of my friends tonight, all straight college women except for myself, about sex and sexuality and men. The topic of men in drag came up. The consensus of the women in the group was 1) men should be able to wear whatever they like, including women's clothes and 2) there are a lot of men who are very attractive as women. I didn't hear a single dissenting opinion after it was voiced that guys in drag can be hot.

    Just thought I'd put it out there that there are women who find MtF CD'ers very attractive.
    Remember always that you have not only the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one. - Eleanor Roosevelt

    The most universal quality is diversity. - Michel de Montaigne

    You do not truly own anything you cannot carry at a dead run!

    ‘Them as can do, has to do for them as can’t. And someone has to speak up for
    them as has no voices.’ - Terry Pratchett, The Wee Free Men

  2. #2
    Member andreaattimes's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    Location
    Las Vegas, NV
    Posts
    157
    I need names and numbers.
    Excuse me Sir, is this your purse?

  3. #3
    New Member spaceycasey GG's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2007
    Location
    California
    Posts
    27
    Hey, my CD husband/wife is very sexy and beautiful, I'm a GG. There is always hope!
    [SIZE="4"]spaceycasey[/SIZE]

  4. #4
    Joanie sterling12's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2005
    Location
    Florida
    Posts
    3,420
    Yeah, that's what they all say! UNTIL.....The Husband or Fiancée announces that he likes to wear women's clothes.

    Then as they say, it almost always hits the fan!

    Peace and Love, Joanie

  5. #5
    ADMINISTRATOR Sandra's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2006
    Location
    UK
    Posts
    25,347
    IMO there are a lot of men who do look better as women, of course being bias I do know one who is pretty close to me.
    Sandra
    Administrator

    I always used to rib you about your legs can't anymore. R.I.P Sexy Legs

    R.I.P Rianna

  6. #6
    Lingerie Lover RachelDenise's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2004
    Location
    Ohio
    Posts
    1,960
    Where are these GG's and how can I find them?????????
    Rachel Denise

    [SIZE="2"]“One day Alice came to a fork in the road and saw a Cheshire cat in a tree. ‘Which road do I take?’ she asked. His response was a question: “Where do you want to go?’ ‘I don’t know,’ answered Alice. ‘Then,’ said the cat, ‘it doesn’t matter.' "
    - Lewis Carroll
    [/SIZE]

  7. #7
    Adventuress Kate Simmons's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2006
    Location
    The Poconos PA
    Posts
    18,971
    Hi Cai and thanks for sharing that my friend. Nice to know there are some progressive thinking young folks out there.
    Second star to the right and straight on till morning

  8. #8
    BOSTON Bringin the Dazzle NicoleR's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    Location
    Amesbury MA
    Posts
    181
    the CD issue is becoming very mainstream and heading more in that direction. just as an example, 20 years ago, who would have thought of a openly gay person having their own talk show. look at the success of ellen. times are changing in many ways!

  9. #9
    Senior Member charllote34's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2007
    Location
    N west England
    Posts
    1,954
    Thanks for sharing that , i have never encountered a woman who as any bad vibes about x dressing , mainly its blokes that have a go at us to boost their own ego!
    Be part of the solution
    Not the problem

  10. #10
    Aspiring Member Gisele's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2006
    Location
    Central KY
    Posts
    719
    I am happy you posted this information. I will give many CD's hope in finding a woman who supports them.

    Personaly I think I make a better looking woman than I am as a male.
    I am in love with the most understanding GG and my biggest fan. Jennifer, I love you!

  11. #11
    Single and Looking!! Erica Lauren James's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2005
    Location
    Brantford, Ontario
    Posts
    171
    Cool.... Well I guess it's time I better go back to college!!

    Kiera
    Someday You'll Find What You're Looking For
    I'm Looking for a GG!!
    If you admirer me then don't be shy and let me know!! I've gotten 4 Secret Admirers and I have no idea who you are. So please(pretty please) let me know who you are. Thanks So much!!!

  12. #12
    Aspiring Member tommi's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Location
    Erie PA
    Posts
    999
    One thing I think is happening is the young this day and age are being raised
    to be more accepting.
    So many kids are growing up short a parent or parents that they accept seeing people just being happy.
    Thanks for sharing hope Cai that the next generation has a shot at being accepted.
    Staying in the closet isn't so bad as long as you know why your in there.

  13. #13
    Platinum Member Angie G's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2006
    Location
    just west of syracuse n.y.
    Posts
    22,888
    I'm thinking you don't have A wife Mine is OK with it to a point But some are hot hun
    Angie

  14. #14
    Emerging Diva Nikki A.'s Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2004
    Location
    ne pa
    Posts
    2,740
    They're all OK as long as it isn't their boyfriend. Not in my backyard

  15. #15
    monkey knife fighter anda_mouse's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2006
    Location
    El Paso Texas
    Posts
    112
    oh where are these girls!?

  16. #16
    Female Illusionist! docrobbysherry's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2007
    Location
    Orange County, Calif.
    Posts
    24,894

    Well, it's about time!

    Quote Originally Posted by hi24home View Post
    There's a boy in the girls' room!

    But this is actually very relevant to many of you, and so I wanted to tell you about it.

    I was having a conversation with a group of my friends tonight, all straight college women except for myself, about sex and sexuality and men. The topic of men in drag came up. The consensus of the women in the group was 1) men should be able to wear whatever they like, including women's clothes and 2) there are a lot of men who are very attractive as women. I didn't hear a single dissenting opinion after it was voiced that guys in drag can be hot.

    Just thought I'd put it out there that there are women who find MtF CD'ers very attractive.

    Hmmmm. I've been thinking of going back to college. Maybe I'll send Sherry instead!
    RS

    www.myspace.com/robertsherry

  17. #17
    I'm home at last! Kris's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2007
    Location
    Back in Portland Oregon
    Posts
    820
    Quote Originally Posted by tommi View Post
    So many kids are growing up short a parent or parents that they accept seeing people just being happy.
    Tommi,

    What does that mean? What does having one parent have to do with being accepting?

    Just curious
    Kris

    BTW.. What the heck am I? You ladies act like they are non exsistant and EVERYONE here knows that I am not with anyone, and interested in getting to know someone..... and then maybe.........

    I am crushed here! I'm gonna go sulk! LMAO
    Last edited by Kris; 11-14-2007 at 02:00 PM. Reason: I'm availible
    [SIZE="3"]
    I'm BACK..... I miss you all so much!!
    [/SIZE]

  18. #18
    Senior Member pamela_a's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2007
    Location
    Twin Cities Suburbs
    Posts
    1,592
    I agree with you searching. They are fine with it as long as it's not the guy they are involved with. Although I'd love to be proved wrong.

    -Paula-
    "Willfully turning aside from the truth is treason to one's self." - Wizard's Tenth Rule:
    "Life is the future, not the past." - Wizard's Seventh Rule
    "Deserve victory." - Wizard's Eighth Rule
    "Be justified in your convictions. Be completely committed. Earn what you want and need rather than waiting for others to give you what you desire."

    There is just one life for each of us: our own - Words from a fortune cookie

    Do or Do Not. There is no try - Yoda

  19. #19
    Gold Member
    Join Date
    Nov 2007
    Location
    Indiana
    Posts
    7,094
    kris, I don't think you would have any problems finding a decent CD if that is what you are searching.

    Of course the best place to find us is at support groups for CD/TS/TG or at glbt clubs.

    I don't know for sure about the support groups, I think they are usually accepting of GG's. If you went to a tg support group, just say you are wanting to learn more, cause you have a good friend who is CD, but is still too shy to come.

    Most of us CD's love our GG supporters

    Anyone care to chime in about that?
    It takes a true Erin to be a pain in the assatar.

  20. #20
    Banned Read only battybattybats's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2006
    Location
    Northern NSW Australia
    Posts
    3,091
    Quote Originally Posted by Kris View Post
    Tommi,

    What does that mean? What does having one parent have to do with being accepting?

    Just curious
    Kris

    BTW.. What the heck am I? You ladies act like they are non exsistant and EVERYONE here knows that I am not with anyone, and interested in getting to know someone..... and then maybe.........

    I am crushed here! I'm gonna go sulk! LMAO
    Poor Kris!
    Perhaps the belief that you are impossible is so strong that some have trouble seeing you right before their eyes?

  21. #21
    Short Skirts & Long Legs
    Join Date
    Nov 2006
    Location
    Home of the 'eers
    Posts
    1,393
    perhaps the younger generation is kinder and gentler, maybe not a bad thing

  22. #22
    Member Charla's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2007
    Location
    South Virginia
    Posts
    195
    Interesting! I have been asking for help from GGs in presenting a more feminine persona, and some seemed genuinely interested in seeing if I had other needs after being dressed up. I did decline their help!

  23. #23
    New Zealand Jazzmine's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    Location
    New Zealand
    Posts
    192
    Girls just wanna have fun and isn't that what we do when crossdressed?
    Of course they love us!

    Hugs Jazzmine
    I'm happy being male but happier in a skirt!
    I'm a strong man on the outside and a strong woman on the inside.

  24. #24
    Trans Species Joy Carter's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Location
    OHIO
    Posts
    6,259
    I said it before. But think some are in it for a cheap thrill.
    And belive me I'm not cheap.............. Just old. LoL
    Last edited by Joy Carter; 11-15-2007 at 05:02 PM.

  25. #25
    Silver Member Jilmac's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2007
    Location
    Somewhere around the Milwaukee area
    Posts
    2,910
    too bad my first and second spouses didn't share that opinion. oh well, i'm single again and don't have to please anyone but me. Jill

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  


Check out these other hot web properties:
Catholic Personals | Jewish Personals | Millionaire Personals | Unsigned Artists | Crossdressing Relationship
BBW Personals | Latino Personals | Black Personals | Crossdresser Chat | Crossdressing QA
Biker Personals | CD Relationship | Crossdressing Dating | FTM Relationship | Dating | TG Relationship


The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs.
We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.

Browse Crossdressers By State