I went out last night to a club that was having an 80's night. Though these days its almost more of an alternative/slightly gothic crowd, last night you would have thought it was a lesbian bar. Saw some friends there, talked to them, etc. I was sitting near the dance floor touching up my makeup with powder when this really macho lesbian came up to me and was like "Come on pretty lady, get up and dance!" It really caught me off guard but I decided 'eh, what the hell' and did so. So we danced! She was a bit tipsy, But seemed to be having a great time.. so we danced for the first song, then another.. toward the end of the second song, she went from no contact to light contact.. and after the second song I graciously but quickly fled the dance floor. Here's the thing...
I felt really bad, like I was decieving a person who seemed pretty nice. I wasn't making advances toward her or anything, but had it been a man I would have quickly said no thank you...However, with her I found that I dreaded the exact same thing.. that she would get mad if she found out that I was male. Assuming that people know this has gotten me into slight trouble before. I know its my right to be out and dressed how I want, but still..
Anyone else ever feel guilty over giving someone the wrong impression this way? Or am I just a weirdo? (well, for a new reason at least!)