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Thread: Need a explanation!!

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    Need a explanation!!

    Hi Girls,

    Well I have not posted much but can anyone tell me
    why I feel so good about myself and very happy when
    I am dressed.. I have the chance to be alone today
    as the gf is at work so I got all dolled up in short skirt,
    med dark hose,nice lace blk slip,and my fav pink and blk
    floral skirt. I feel as I can knock the world out. But
    do not feel the same when I am in my male dud's. Why
    is this??

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    welcome to the family
    Love as always Jasminexxxxxxxx

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    Thanks!

    Can you tell me why I feel great being dressed up vs my male things?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alisha284 View Post
    Can you tell me why I feel great being dressed up vs my male things?
    yes silly your a crossdersser...............

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wendy me View Post
    yes silly your a crossdersser...............
    And basically theres your answer simple as that!!
    Be part of the solution
    Not the problem

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    Thanks Girl's

    I just love being on this site and thanks for the welcome!!

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    Senior Citizen Mary Morgan's Avatar
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    Alisha, You certainly know how to ask the million dollar question first. My guess is that you like many of us, are somewhere on the male-female continuum that is closer to the center, or maybe you just have a great sense of style. Enjoy!
    Last edited by Mary Morgan; 11-23-2007 at 11:06 PM.

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    Seems to go with the "turf" according to most answers on a recent thread of mine. I asked how do you feel when you are dressed.
    Second star to the right and straight on till morning

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    Real simple, you are one of the girls.

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    I don't know that any of us know why we are crossdressers, let alone know why anyone else is a crossdresser.
    It takes a real man to wear a dress.

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    Well Alisha, To sum it up none of us know just precisely and exactly why we're crossdressers. that's the plain and simple truth! But let all of us give you a big welcome to the family.

    Yours,Samantha

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    Do what makes ya happy

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    Well, men's clothes just are not sexy. Women's clothes are usually softer and prettier. AND I assume you are attracted to women, so when you dress like one, you probably wear things you would like to see a woman wear. So, you feel that you look sexy. And maybe you do. Maybe you wish you were a woman.

    Well I am sure if you looked hard enough around the web you would find a long winded answer by some "expert" but what I said above is the summary of it.

    Many of us feel all pretty when dolled up. It is normal.
    It takes a true Erin to be a pain in the assatar.

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    Women clothes give you a feeling of security. You don't have to live up to the pressure of being a man. At least that is one of the reasons I got from a therapist.

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    It feels good because it is natural for us.

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    Beats me!! I feel good about myself no matter how I'm dressed.... Self respect shouldn't depend on what your wearing... IMHO....

    Karren
    Current Obsession - Breasts and Lingerie!

    .......My Photos

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    You are doing something that you want to do, that is bound to make anyone feel happy.


    joanne

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    When a part of someone has been repressed because they,re told boy,s don,t like soft or silky cloths or they shouldn,t show their emotions or want to dress pretty and that side finaly gets a chance to express itself it feel good.Oh yes it feels so good to finaly let it out.

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    Heya hun and welcome,

    The feeling good while dressed is your body's and mind way of telling you your relaxed, chilled out and comfortable.

    Alot of us here will be able to realte to the feelings we experience while dressed en femme.

    my advice?!? just go along with it and enjoy doing it. Experiment with it and you will find a medium where you will be happy.... (or wanting more lol).

    tc hun


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    [SIZE=3]I had to come out of the closet, to make room for all my clothes...[/SIZE]

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