My take is: I "crossdress" As I see fit. It may never be accepted.... You can die unhappy with regrets, or dress to please your self. Only you can determine if dressing s for you. I am much happier now that I came out to my wife, no more hiding and stressing... she supports me. And guess what who cares what others think. Now to to be a hipocrite, but I still have a job to keep and kids to feed. So I am tactfull on how and where I go. Yet I'm still happy. Take everyone advice as that, only you can discide what is right for you. "Live free or die"
Katie