Some more detail on exactly what I am looking for:
A somewhat loose definition of "friend" I wouldn't argue someone your still "friendly with" i.e. see 'em constantly (purpose or circumstance) and there is perceived mutual "good vibes" about the other. Or, one of you initiates contact somewhat regularly, and it alternates, on occasion, whom initiates.
Also it does not matter if she did or did not know about being a CD...
I would also appreciate it if you included girls you where friends with for a while after breaking up.
I am not ignoring MtFs with ex-boyfriends or other TGs or any other possible category of humanity. However I am interested in this specific segment as it pertains to "is it possible CDs and GGs end romance on more mutual understanding than difference. Also, by extension, my "normalcy within a subculture" will be some what established.
Anyway thanks for participating. I will just leave you with my answer:
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