I have no chopice but to control it. My wife would leave me and my business associates cut me out. So I dress when I can. I met another CD in a bar once (we were both in all our finery) and he told me that he only dresses for two weeks a year when he visits his TG friend in Phoenix. He leaves all of his clothes there and for those two weeks never is out of his female persona. He lives on the East coast and never dresses except when he is in Arizona. NOW, THAT IS CONTROL!