Um, as I look at pictures that I've taken of myself in a Bra, I noticed I have a tendency to have my bra up too high. (I own a pair of Transform Classic 1forms for the past 4 years now from The Breastform Store). Okay, but I feel I have to have the straps very tight (Love it) and the back tight as well (Love that too). Now I was wondering since I am a bigger girl, 42C/44B, should I have the forms/breasts hang down a bit? Let up on the shoulder straps a bit? Where exactly should I have the forms sit on my own male chest is what I should be asking? Any help is greatly appreciated.