i just wondered has anyone had the same or similar experience to me i was caught out by my mom at about 14 wearing my sisters clothes ironically it as my moms clothes i usually tried on - whenever my parents were out i would secretly go into my mom and sisters room and try their clothes on while they were out - my mom was and always has been perseptive she knew someone had riled through her things and thought we'd had burgelers (dont know what you call them in the states) robbers - anyway i got caught made to feel guilty ashamed - i can honestly say despite the fact i was young and knew it was wrong to be trying on other peoples clothes i never felt i was doin anything wrong in the crossdressing act itself at that age - i didnt hide from the window draw the curtains ect - i honestly think now that experience left me with a feeling of guilt that i should never have had - its took me 25 years and joining a website like this now to help me realise i'm not alone not a discrace to my gender or my family and you people on here have helped me realise this - no matter how far away you are out there are people out there like you or similar at least we may dress for different reasons but we all share one thing in common i think and that is we'd have all been happier given a choice at bith male or female ! what would you choose ! anyone asked me why i crossdress i will give them one answer sorry but did i get a choice at birth male or female - havnt tried it yet but i think if nothing else it may make people think before sounding off !