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    Junior Member Mixie's Avatar
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    Don't make me call your bluff, Bre. Besides, what's wrong with Fresno? Oh wait...

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    It's great you have doneso much and want to do more so you go girl be all that you can be hun
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    You go, girl!!

    J,

    I read you list of 18 + 2 things to do in 2008, and I am sad to say that I will probably NOT accomplish any of them this year... damn.

    Looks like I am going to spend another year living vicariously through your adventures!!

    My list:

    1) Engage my wife in regular, casual, TWO WAY conversations about my crossdressing

    2) Encourage my wife to look at some of the pictures I have taken (and PhotoShopped) of myself... they really are not all that scary

    3) Try a shorter hairstyle.

    OK, three things. Don't want to be overly optimistic. At least I know I can buy a new wig this year..!
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    I'm going to climb mount everest... in my best high heels... last year I didn't have any idea what I was going to do as Carly.. I think this year will be more of the same, play it by ear type of thing.. my "sophmore" slump was too long ago to remember.. I think there is a bit of that that happens where you think what to do as a crossdresser...

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    Just a few to add

    Joann, I think your list is wonderful and I am proud of what you have accomplished.

    My List:
    1. To have my SO to be more understanding and allow me to do what I want.
    2. Work on getting some makeup tips and hair styling tips.
    3. Work on my female voice, very tough one.
    4. Go out more in public.
    5. Would like to go to a formal event where I would be wearing a long beautiful gown.


    Hopefully we will all see a brighter and better 2008, Much love and happiness to all the girls.
    Love From Your Sister Michelle
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    * Shave my legs regularly, instead of just when I can be bothered.
    * Dress more often.
    * Get some more outfits.
    * Work on the weight loss so I have more choice in clothes.

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    That's quite a list for the new year. My less ambitious list is.

    1. Finish laser hair removal treaments, and possibly start electroylis as well to help speed things up.
    2. Actualy attend a TG conference.
    3. Finaly join a support group such as Tri-Ess.
    4. WIN THE LOTTERY!!

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    Maybe go out en femme this year to Seattle!
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    My list 1: my femme voice
    2: learn to dance
    3: do more shopping
    4: find a local Tri-Ess

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    DRAG the sewing machine back out and force myself to deside where to put the zipper on the jean skirts,, i already have the material to make them with.

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    What a great collection

    Well, as I look at '08. I have a few.

    1) Meet at least once a month with a t-girl friend. Even if it is in drab to just be able to speak and share openly with someone would be great.

    2) To be an Austin's Angel or high end glamour photo.

    3) Buy and wear a long gown to an appropriate event.

    4) Photos in a wedding dress--just such a passion around this one.

    5) The hooters thing also seems like fun.

    6) Attend an event.

    7) Go to the movies.

    8) Work out enfemme.

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    Joann you will make a fine Treasurer. Remember, it was my job last year and if Joanie couldn't screw it up...anybody could do it!

    However, back to the point. You asked for lists, so here goes:

    1.) To be a good Vice President for Tri-Beta and do my job to improve our group. We have a very good thing going, and I want to help as many Gurl's as possible.

    2.) To improve on Joanie's Presentation. I need work on the voice, The walk, and in my feminine deportment. I think we all change everyday, in many small ways...so, it won't be such a big stretch.

    3.) To be more public, and in turn to gain more public tolerance. Your right, the only way we are going to do it, is to be in more public venues. That's part of the reason for finding more places for Tri-Beta Gurl's to dine and go shopping.

    4.) To offer my services to Tri-Ess and help with Chapter Development. If I am allowed to participate, I would like to see a National Tri-Ess Goal of doubling the number of Chapters this year. More Chapters means more gurl's get an opportunity!

    5.) To make a lot of new friends for Joanie, both in and outside of The LGBT Community.

    Not super ambitious, but it's enough for one year.

    Peace and Love, Joanie

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    it definatly has to be to go out and meet some of the friends i have made on here
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    how about posting ads for this site around our local areas,,,,im sure there are ALOT of cds who are so far deep in the closet that they dont know which way is up

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    Hi Joann and all the girls on here!

    Firstly, happy New Year and i hope you all have lots of girly fun in 2008!

    Joann, big hugs and congratulations on what you've achieved in the past year. I hope you manage to achieve all your objectives...and more! You go girl!

    Personally, 2007 was a good year for Sara although she wasn't out enfemme very much. My biggest achievement for 2007 was coming out as Sara to all my work colleagues. However, i hadn't planned to do this! lol Have gained genuine support from them which has been great and makes my job even more enjoyable.

    Objectives for 2008:

    1. To feel less self-conscious in expressing my feminine side when in 'Alan' mode.

    2. Getting my ears pierced.

    3. Do another shopping trip enfemme (last and first one was in March 06 at one of the UK's largest shopping malls!)

    4. Have a professional photo-shoot done.

    5. To try and understand where my life is heading (as far as Sara's concerned)


    Hugs from Sara xxxx

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    there are alot of thing i would like to do this year.
    1 do more shoping. most imporant thing i would like to get is a wig and brest form.
    2 dress more
    3 get a manicare and a pedicare. my wife made me get one befor she knew about my cross dressing. i loved it
    4 improve with the make-up
    5 learn on how to pass as a woman
    6 go out.
    7 injoy cross dressing to its fullest
    LOVE RESPECT DIGUITY

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    1. Get a brazillian bikini wax
    2. Lose weight
    3. Find the perfect hair style
    4. Find a boyfriend
    5. Get a belly-buttom ring
    Janie
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    I will probably disappoint because I have done plenty already, but I do have a small 2008 list:

    1). Electrolysis....I hate shaving!!!

    2.) Finally get professional photos in the wedding dress I've had for 2 years.

    3.) Complete my medieval gown and do a Rennasainse Faire dressed.

    4.) A weekend at the beach in the Spring or late Fall.

    5.) Got the ears pierced December 28th so that's off the list now.

    A major event of sisters might be nice too, but I do weekends now with TransCarolina sometimes and I must admit I prefer 30 people to 300 or more.


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    Smile 2008

    Well here's a few I have on the agenda.
    1. Lost 20 pounds
    2. Attend more TG events.
    3. March in inclusive St. Pat's DAy parade.
    4. Be even more visible. I go out in public a lot so I am letting the
    world know about me.
    5. Travel. I'm hoping to travel to California this year so I may have an opportunity to dress out there.

    This is just a few. I'm formulating my goals for this year. Joann, isn't it wonderful to achieve your goals? 2007 was a great year for me, too.

    Gennee

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    Simple; get out more (and not just clubbing)
    Girls who are boys, Who like boys to be girls, Who do boys like they're girls, Who do girls like they're boys, Always should be someone you really love

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    go to a tri-ess meeting
    loose weight
    go out more
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    My 2008 to-do-list is just to be able to dress, with the wife knowing that I do it. Then maybe I will get to get out once more like I use to. I have so many beautiful clothes that I want to wear, but to afraid of getting caught wearing them. And I would like to go to my first group meeting, wether it be tri-ess or some other event for CDers. I so do miss going out full dress, of course back then (10 yrs ago) I still had my own long hair, it was down to my butt. If I can ever find pictures of it that my wife has not made me burn, I will post them.
    Striving for acceptance.

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    Here is my kick at the can, surely incomplete, but gets me started:

    1. Move in to a place of my own and create my own femme space
    2. Organize my clothes, shoes, makeup, accessories etc...
    3. Buy a couple of new wigs
    4. Have laser hair removal on my facial hair
    5. Spend more time dressed en femme at home and in public
    6. Tell my children and siblings about my femme side
    7. Get really good at my hair, makeup and general femme illusion techniques
    8. Have my ears pierced
    9. Attend a few femme week-ends away
    10. Grow my hair long enough to style
    11. Gain a better understanding of the depth and breadth of transgenderism in my life
    What stop do I get off at? Hmmm...

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    My "to do list" for 2008

    Joann - first of all, Happy New Year for 2008.

    You did so much last year I'd have thought they'd be nothing left to do this year ..... then I saw your long list... wow !! ...

    Well girl there's no stopping you so I'm sure you'll get through that list in no time.

    If I could do half of what you did in 2007 then I'd be so happy, but for now here is my list and I hope I can do them all:

    1. Loose some more weight
    2. Further develop the fem voice (it's coming along okay)
    3. Go out to a Restaurant on a date (that's already lined up for this month)
    4. Go to the movies
    5. Spend even more time than last year enfemme
    6. Improve my fem walk (I'm sure I've been read because of my walk)
    7. Go to the SCC in Atlanta (staying there for 10 days)
    8. The real hard one, fly to the other side of Aus and stay for a week enfemme.

    Suzy

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    [QUOTE=Melanie R;1139945]
    Quote Originally Posted by joann07 View Post
    18. Take a sea cruise. That would be an interesting trip. Did anyone see the movie "Boat Trip?". I would LOVE to meet the girl of my dreams on cruise ship.

    Yes, join some of your other Florida Tri-Ess members on our next cruise out of Florida. We have a Halloween cruise planned for next October out of Miami and cruises in May out of Rome and early October out of New Jersey to Quebec. Being enfemme on a cruise is the ultimate!

    Melanie
    I hope to make this years Halloween cruise....i was supposed to be at 2007 but was unable to go....my TS g/f went and had nothing but great things to say about Melanie and her group....keeping my fingers crossed for a better 08 so i can make it.

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