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Thread: Dominant, Submissive or both?

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    Aspiring Model/Actress Jennifer Lynndon's Avatar
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    I'm definitely a switch when it involves romantic activities ... but than again ... I really like it kinky!

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    100% spoiled brat christina marie's Avatar
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    way back when,some where in my memories,when there was a sex life, i was usually the dominant one. always wished i could try the other side though,as am a sub at heart!
    "you can have this nail file when you pry it from my cold ,dead hands."

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    Junior Member Jessika Paige's Avatar
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    sadly, i am nearly always the driving force. just cant get her to take the wheel. she tries but i never see the animal inside. i wish she'd go primal on me!

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    Senior Member Jennaie's Avatar
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    As a man, I have always felt forced to take the top, but I have always wanted to be the bottom.
    [SIZE="3"]Jennaie`[/SIZE]

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    sub

    My lady likes to keep me tied to a chair a lot of the time.

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    Aspiring Member Carol A's Avatar
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    Oh now are you such a bad girl she has to keep you tied up?

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    Pantyhose Fangirl KathrynTX's Avatar
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    I'd say that I'm mainly submissive in boy and girl mode, but have fantasies about being dominant with a GG while dressed.
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    Member laura.lapinski's Avatar
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    If top means dominate, we are a 50/50 split. She has to be on top to climax, and I could do either. I love being both, but probably like bottom better.

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    In guy mode definitely Dominant without question.

    As Zara... not so much.

    Besides... Authority needen't raise its voice

    Now where did I leave that crop?

    LOL

    Zara

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    I have found that if I am with a guy, then I immediately am more feminine and extremely submissive to him. I completely and totally love this feeling. However, if I am with a girl 99% of the time I am dominant towards her. I make sure guy or girl is pleased, but I try and take total control of the situation with the girl.

    This has just added to my confusion about my preferences, because I would assume I would be the same towards both, but am in fact complete opposite.
    Angelina

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    Member suzi_cd's Avatar
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    very submissive here

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    Lisa Ledoux LisaLedoux's Avatar
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    Changed over time

    I used to be much more dominant but as I have gotten older, calmer, and more fem, I now find myself fully submissive.

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    Lone Wolf
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    Submissive is the best for me.

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    Member Kali's Avatar
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    As my SO often points out, I'm not submisive, but will occaisionally play one in the bedroom

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    New Member Vickycd_pa's Avatar
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    As Vicky very submissive. Luv how my Gf takes charge....

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    Member chrissietoo's Avatar
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    submissive

    My first sex was on my back with an older woman straddling me. If felt right then, and it feels right now!

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    Safe Sex



    Well I like to practice 'safe sex' - so I just say 'no'

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    Member Marie O's Avatar
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    I love being Submissive, My wife seems to enjoy the Dominate role!

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    Junior Member Naima's Avatar
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    Definitely submissive. I'm just a sweetheart. lol

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    I consider myself a femme bottom and a butch top. I find it very easy to be submissive when dressed, and difficult to be submissive when I'm in guy mode.

    Ruthie

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    Gurly brat. Valeries_Online's Avatar
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    [SIZE="2"] I would say I switch. When I dress I usually start out as submissive. I want to be taken desperately by my wife. After being taken a while it excites me terribly and I begin to take. I don't think I've ever stayed submissive the whole time being dressed. I love to be submissive and dominant. I've noticed though after being submissive when I do dominate my wife it is more passionate domination than when not dressed. [/SIZE]

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    Very interesting thread.....

    As for me, I am essentially submissive although I can and do enjoy the spectrum of D/s. I've found there is nothing quite as freeing as surrendering it all to someone you trust not to hurt you, but to push your boundaries (or what you thought were your boundaries). My partner's pleasure is my pleasure.

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    Sweet Southern Girl looki Alicia_lynn419's Avatar
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    I tend to be (when the mood hits me) to be more Dom as my male self and sub as my fem self.....

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    Dom, sub or both?

    I've always preferred being the sub even b4 my wife found out about my cding. I always have to force myself to be dom, it's just not this girl's nature!

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    I have been submissive for as long as I can remember, even before I became aware of my true femininity.

    Michelle
    You go girl!

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