I'm definitely a switch when it involves romantic activities ... but than again ... I really like it kinky!
I'm definitely a switch when it involves romantic activities ... but than again ... I really like it kinky!
way back when,some where in my memories,when there was a sex life, i was usually the dominant one. always wished i could try the other side though,as am a sub at heart!
"you can have this nail file when you pry it from my cold ,dead hands."
sadly, i am nearly always the driving force. just cant get her to take the wheel. she tries but i never see the animal inside. i wish she'd go primal on me!
As a man, I have always felt forced to take the top, but I have always wanted to be the bottom.
[SIZE="3"]Jennaie`[/SIZE]
My lady likes to keep me tied to a chair a lot of the time.
Oh now are you such a bad girl she has to keep you tied up?
I'd say that I'm mainly submissive in boy and girl mode, but have fantasies about being dominant with a GG while dressed.
--Kat
"I never kept up with the fashions. I believed in wearing what I thought looked good on me." --Bettie Page
"This above all--to thine own self be true" --Hamlet, Act I, scene iii
Is Disney a Mickey Mouse operation?
If top means dominate, we are a 50/50 split. She has to be on top to climax, and I could do either. I love being both, but probably like bottom better.
In guy mode definitely Dominant without question.
As Zara... not so much.
Besides... Authority needen't raise its voice
Now where did I leave that crop?
LOL
Zara
I have found that if I am with a guy, then I immediately am more feminine and extremely submissive to him. I completely and totally love this feeling. However, if I am with a girl 99% of the time I am dominant towards her. I make sure guy or girl is pleased, but I try and take total control of the situation with the girl.
This has just added to my confusion about my preferences, because I would assume I would be the same towards both, but am in fact complete opposite.
Angelina
I used to be much more dominant but as I have gotten older, calmer, and more fem, I now find myself fully submissive.
Submissive is the best for me.
As my SO often points out, I'm not submisive, but will occaisionally play one in the bedroom
As Vicky very submissive. Luv how my Gf takes charge....
My first sex was on my back with an older woman straddling me. If felt right then, and it feels right now!
Well I like to practice 'safe sex' - so I just say 'no'
I love being Submissive, My wife seems to enjoy the Dominate role!
I consider myself a femme bottom and a butch top. I find it very easy to be submissive when dressed, and difficult to be submissive when I'm in guy mode.
Ruthie
[SIZE="2"] I would say I switch. When I dress I usually start out as submissive. I want to be taken desperately by my wife. After being taken a while it excites me terribly and I begin to take. I don't think I've ever stayed submissive the whole time being dressed. I love to be submissive and dominant. I've noticed though after being submissive when I do dominate my wife it is more passionate domination than when not dressed. [/SIZE]
As for me, I am essentially submissive although I can and do enjoy the spectrum of D/s. I've found there is nothing quite as freeing as surrendering it all to someone you trust not to hurt you, but to push your boundaries (or what you thought were your boundaries). My partner's pleasure is my pleasure.
I tend to be (when the mood hits me) to be more Dom as my male self and sub as my fem self.....
I've always preferred being the sub even b4 my wife found out about my cding. I always have to force myself to be dom, it's just not this girl's nature!
I have been submissive for as long as I can remember, even before I became aware of my true femininity.
Michelle
You go girl!