Very good topic. I think passing is a great thing -but not essential for enjoyment of cd'ing. It is a good goal, as the experiences while making the attempt will be very enjoyable. I have passed from rarely passable to most often passable. Passable being defined as causing no particular reaction from those around me. With out plastic surgery most of us can be "made" by any one who looks closely. Most of the time people do not look closely. While getting a manicure I am sure that my reality is known, but ignored. Others have stressed the importance of dress that is with in the norms of the community in which you wish to pass, this is the essence. Go dressed to where ever you feel safe, get the reaction from those you encounter and change in accordance then try again. You will enjoy and improve. Ann