I wonder how many CD for sexual reasons? This is not about satisfying yourself, just about your motivation for dressing in the first place. Quick poll to see who does and who doesn't. I'm in the 75%+ catagory.
Clean comments accepted.
RS
I dress primarily for sexual reasons, 75%+ of the time
I often CD for sexual reasons, 50% to 75% of the time
I do CD for sexual reasons, 25% to 50% of the time
I rarely CD for sexual reasons, under 25% of the time
I never dress for sexual reasons
I wonder how many CD for sexual reasons? This is not about satisfying yourself, just about your motivation for dressing in the first place. Quick poll to see who does and who doesn't. I'm in the 75%+ catagory.
Clean comments accepted.
RS
Last edited by docrobbysherry; 01-21-2008 at 07:27 PM.
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
Well, x-dressing used to be only sexual when I was a teenager...
But now x-dressing for me is no more no less sexual than it is for a FaB (Female at Birth). When I'm dressed I don't think all day long about sex... I only do think about sex at special moments, like this is the case for a real woman, at least I guess...
The rest of the time I just enjoy being a woman, to the point that I sometime forget that I'm dressed as one...
Eugenie
I never dress for sexual reasons
and not a CD.........just me being me............
No!!
I did not vote. I mean if by "sexual" you mean I like to look and feel like a Woman, then its 100% of the time for me, but its also a major stress breaker, slows me down, and it just fun!
Hope this helps.
Hugs!
SandyR
Real Men can Cook in Heels...
I don't dress for sexual reasons
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
Well Its for sexual and non sexual reasons,
I mean it was the fetish of wanting to be feminine that drew me to want to dress, And I do get turned on when dressed,
but I also dress because I would like to be pretty.
Somtimes the sexual part of it takes over, and it creates boundaries, like , I just need to relieve myself, then the urge to dress goes away, and I want to get back to what I was doing before-hand - Which kinda annoys me because I would love to just live my life being pretty rather than feel horny while being pretty if that makes sence.
I Guess it would work out if I didnt have the stress of sneaking around with my CDing, but because im hiding it from my family, its more of a "Just get rid of the hornyness" type thing :S, then get back to whatever I usually do.
Twenty years ago, dressing created a definite sexual thrill, and source of release. Over the years, dressing is just now part of me. It feels relaxing, and just normal, and exciting on a higher level in my mind.
[SIZE="3"]Amy[/SIZE]
Don't always dress for sex...it depends on who is with me at the time.
What I can say for sure though,when I do have sex while dressed...it is much more intense than when I'm not dressed.
Dressing is like viagra for trannies!
Krystyn
I want to be the pretty princess, not anything sexual to anyone.
Zara
I do it for sexual pleasure primarily but once in awhile it's just for relaxation and just to be doing it for the hell of it. I'm not passable. But another aspect is that I do get a certain narcistic satisfaction out of my CD'ing.
wers the selection for "i used to but not anymore"????
when i first started out if i even thought of slipping on a pair of pantyhose i would get stiff,,now i need a crane and a 50 ton jack to get "up" (mental issues),,no viagra dont work..
Im in the 75% category.
Ive found that my dressing is usually closely related to the relationship i have with my S/O. Ive noticed that when our physical relationship is strong, i do not feel the need to dress at all. Then, when the physical part of the relationship goes into a slump, I feel the need to dress more often. She knows i am interested in dressing, as she has dressed me on a few occasions, but doesnt know the half of it....
its both for me - started off that way - got caught dressed - no oppotunity to dress for years and years - converted into a fantasy in my head ! - now i live alone its developed into more of a need relaxation phychological boost - enjoyment whatever - its more than just a fantasy now - but there will always be a sexual side to it for me as well - unless i have my ball removed i guess ! no plans soon !
sex? what is that?
When I began to CD, I think that there was more titilation in it for me than there is now. Now, I seldom, if ever, dress for sexual reasons (if by this, the question means do I CD as a way to sexual arousal).
warmly, Linnea
I wish that I had read this before I responded because I agree with it so heartily (as I often find myself responding to Eugenie's comments).Originally Posted by Eugenie
Well, x-dressing used to be only sexual when I was a teenager...
But now x-dressing for me is no more no less sexual than it is for a FaB (Female at Birth). When I'm dressed I don't think all day long about sex... I only do think about sex at special moments, like this is the case for a real woman, at least I guess...
The rest of the time I just enjoy being a woman, to the point that I sometime forget that I'm dressed as one...
Eugenie
warmly, Linnea
Next question
So, looking at the results of the survey, is this a reflection of the crossdressing community in general? Or, are more nonsexual than sexual crossdressers drawn to this forum?
Or, are many of us aged beyond our sexual prime to the extent that we are simply no longer turned on by previously sexually arousing behavior?
I, for one, experience a low level of sexual stimulation/arousal every time I crossdress. However, it is very infrequent that it leads to sexual gratification. (However, at my age, 62, it is always gratifying to know I can still be sexually stimulated.)
100% sexual for me always has been think it always will be
but hey works for me and my lovely wife....... funny thing is i think if i dressed for any other reason besides a sexual thing my wife would not be in sync with it....
and i do not pass judgement, think it is wonderful for whatever reason you all like to slip on something fem.........
Vicky, I was quite interested in the number that dress for sexual reasons because so many posts r by TS and TG, etc. individuals. As a closet fetish dresser, I often feel like the odd man out here.
About 10 years ago, I was for all intents and purposes, "sexually dead". Then I began CDing. Culminating in the appearance of Sherry 2 years ago. She gets me hotter than any GG I've been with, in nearly 20 years. Now, at age 60, I am more sexually active than I have been since my 30's. And I have only CDing to blame, ( credit), with my renewal.
RS
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
I get aroused when I dress at home, but when I go out in public dressed the arousal goes away until I get home and then the arousal starts again.
Nope. It's always been an identity thing for myself.
Second star to the right and straight on till morning
Well Doc, I dress to feel femme. When I feel femme i have sexual desires. I don't have to be dressed to have my femme sexual desires and I don't always have my femme sexual desires when I am dressed. but i always have sexual desire, femme or not.
[SIZE="3"]Jennaie`[/SIZE]
This may sound a bit strange but I think dressing for sexual arousal and getting dressed and getting aroused while dressed is 2 different issues.
I do not get dressed for sexual arousal.
Fetish - any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation.
I think if you get dressed to obtain sexual arousal then it is a fetish. As like men who put on a pair of panties or stockings for sexual arousal that is also a fetish and there is nothing wrong with that.
Now moving onto my next point. I do not know if anyone else ever feels this way but here goes.
On the odd occassion when I get aroused nowadays is when I am getting undressed. When the time comes to slip back into Bob mode the act of undressing can become erotic. Catching a glimpse of yourself undressing in the full length mirror seems to stir things up.
I never dress with the sole intention of getting aroused. I dress because it is who I am and what I do. No rhyme or reason to it really, I just feel that it is right for me and makes me feel whole. I am more at ease with myself, the world in general when I dress.
Anyways thats my little view on the matter.
Xx Vicky xX
A few decades ago, I would have answered a 75% yes, but now it has very little sexual pleasures, but a whole lot of expression of my inner self.
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