We see it often written here when some get gussied up with the full femme presentation (clothes, wig, makeup, etc.) they say they feel really feminine. I'm still trying to figure out what that means. I used to think I felt that way as if a "magic button" was pushed when I got dressed up and went out but when I thought it over, I really don't. How could I "feel" femme or feminine when I have no clue what it is to feel like being a woman? Mind over matter? Mindset? Self hypnosis?
After pondering this a bit, I've come to the conclusion that I really do not feel "femme". What I do feel when I dress and go out is total freedom for expressing myself and my feelings and the fact I'm not ashamed to express myself this way. Actually, these days, I can feel this freedom whether I decide to dress or not. My core self never did and never does change but my outlook on life and my appreciation for others has. I see beyond the physical image and accept everyone for who they are and their true spirit. What I really feel is the freedom to be myself. Saying I feel "femme" doesn't come close to describing the real feeling.