I would have to say no I'm not the same person.
My male side is a serious perfectionist, bitter, angery, isolated, rebelous, DTA, always did what is expected
My Female side is more understanding, more tolerant of others BS, loving, open but cautious, at peace with oneself, more independant
I don't even like the same things. I'm not skizto or anything, but when presented and raised as male by close minded people, your expected to do and act a certain way at all times, every day is a pretend to survive. As an adult I couldn't take the pretending anymore and put my foot down, more like into a paper shredder , but I can be myself and act natural, what ever that may be. I'm trying new thing, going places and doing things I never thought I could. I hope this answers your Q.