Since having "The Talk" with my wife, we have been very open with each other, there seams to be a bit of understanding on her part but not accepting to to point of seeing and or participating but she is doing a lot of reading and asking questions. Small steps.
So this past week she is cleaning out her closet, putting her winter stuff away and getting out her summer wardrobe. I came home and the bed was covered in piles of clothes. "I'm giving the clothes it to good will, take a look and see if you want to keep anything, I don't want to know what you keep, so don't tell me. When you are done bag it and take it to good will."
WOW - Cool! She said it's better then spending money on a new second wardrobe. We are about the same size, but I can fit into the stuff she hasn't wore in a long time and some of my favorite things were on the bed. with soccer and all I couldn't get into the pile untill the next day. I had a long shower in the morning shaved (where I'm allowed). Came home from work and after dinner locked myself in our bedroom, put on a bra and nylons and tried everything on. I had a good time, tried different outfits, mixed and matched. I kept what I wanted and took the rest to good will. When I was done, I came out of our room and sat next to her on the couch, she scooted right next to me, cuddled and asked if I enjoyed myself. I kissed her, told her I loved her and said thank you. we were both pleased.
Little steps, all little steps. I was so happy, it was like christmas in April!
Now go cook her dinner right away!! 
thats the sweetest!
