Never done it fully dressed, but have worn knickers in bed(her suggestion).
I have, or would, make love to others while dressed
I have fantasized about that, maybe some day
Making love en fem or not, isn't that important to me
Making love with my fem side is a very private affair
Never done it fully dressed, but have worn knickers in bed(her suggestion).
thats what it's all about for me - sex - totally sex - dress for sex - and dress for all the foreplay
I have had sex as a woman only for 3 yrs now . I am a cd and NOTHING is better for me than being made love to as a total woman. I always wear my corset, panties, bra, breasts, nails, makeup, hair, earrings, and stilettos during it and the men I am with seem to love it. Nothing makes me feel more femme and sexy!
Originally Posted by pantyhosed
yes, i am dressed most of the time we make love. my wifes mood will determine who gets bend over and has their skirtlifted
doris you look stunning im sure they all like it
Have done it twice with my wife while en femme. I loved it - she barely tolerated it. But I'll keep trying.....
I had a g/f once who was really into role-playing and she dressed me up and had her way with me. My wife, on the other had, likes it when I make love to her as me. She doesn't have any lesbian fantasies and while she supports me wearing what I will, she reserves certain times for, as she puts it, her man.
many many times with my ex,she did`nt mind and made me dress as she said it was better.
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I would absolutely die if I was given the oppurtunity to sleep with my wife while enfemme, not to mention if she played with me - say as two girls together do.
Anessa
I'm also confused by names though: What are the critical differences between a crossdresser. a transvestite, a drag queen. a *******, a t-girl. and a transsexual? I'm guessing that a crossdresser and a transvestite are the same, and can be in either 'boy-" or "girl mode”. However, drag queens, ********, t-girls, and transsexuals are always in "girl mode". Right, or is there more...
HMM interesting.
OK
transvestite....derives sexual pleasure from wearing the clothing of an opposit sex
crossdresser...enjoys wearing and being the opposite sex when dresed
drag queen...a person who wears the opposit sexes clothes and performs for the public. Rarely "always" in girl mode
transexual...A person who has gone through a surgical procedure to become a member of the opposite sex.
t-girl...this one is a bit open. BUT...usually anyone who identifies with being the opposit sex when dressed uses this phrase and it is accepted as such. NOT alwasy in girl mode necesarily.
*******...a phrase mostly used buy the porn industry describing...excuse my language here..."chicks with dicks"
hope that helps everyone.
As a joke my wife set me up on a date with a friend of hers...He being Bi was all in for it and I was told to be prepared to be "all" woman...I was, I did, I loved it, just never been there since...
I have never made love to my wife while femmed up but when she wears lingerie, I wish I had them on to.
She jokingly asked me to put on her lingerie once and it took everything in me not to accept her offer. if the situation arises again I am definetely taking her up on it. Who knows, this may open the door to finally tell her that I crossdress.
I have a few times. With an ex girlfriend who was cool with my CDing, and several times with my fiancee. Most recently, last fall, we were both a bit drunk, but it was WILD. Still, I love being a "guy" with her. But, every now and then. . .
-Sedona
Most definitely -- it sooooo unbelievably fantastic. I never ever knew how wonderful and pleasurable it would be until Debbie and I shared our intimate times en femme. I think it because for once in my life, I am now totally free to give wings to all my fantasies.
Equally fun ... okay .. I'll say it ... is when we are both underdressed when being intimate -- my en femme and Debbie en homme.
Might not work at all for the rest of you, but it was number one on my hit parade of fantasies and lead to one fantastic night
Huggles
Toni-Lynn
If dressed in a night gown with out any other fem helps counts yes. Does this count?
My wife and I haven't made love since our last child was born. Her reasoning was that if we weren't going to have any more, there was no need to be intimate. That was 10 years before she knew about my dressing.
To the point of the thread. Yes, I have made love whilst dressed. It was a professional lady who was very much into what I was looking for. If you are confused by this, think of the Governor of NY – very high end.
It might have been one of the best days of my life.
For the mods – if this post is out of bounds, I apologize and please feel free to delete my post. I am new here and want to fit in.
no more
My wife and I made love a few times while I was wearing panties and even nightgowns a couple of times, but those days are long gone now (along with sex of any kind with her.)
I'd love to start off totally dressed up and have sex with a women who was into that.
I can only hope.
Susan and Laura
My heart goes out to you for I too found myself in similar circumstances over 10 years ago with my ex-wife. We didn't make love until 8 months after our wedding and then it was solely to conceive a child. My crossdressing was not even known to her at the time. I had a very difficult time of it and went through the motions. Later it was determined that I had a very low sperm count. At that point, we not only didn't make love ever again, she also moved out of our bedroom. Divorce was the result about 4 months later .. I asked for one.
I know the longing for an intimate touch of any kind. I understand. I'm sorry for you.
Huggles
Toni-Lynn
--I'm TN (transnationalist) - a Canadian born in an American's body! I stand on guard for thee!
I'm with you Kayla, for my SO this would completely out of the question and if Nikki was to have intimate relations then it would need to be with a man or a bi woman.
Discrete and accurate!
This is exactly how I feel; I really don't think I want to bring Nikki into the bedroom with my wife and I'm absolutely positive she doesn't want that either.
As Nikki my fantasy (longing) is to be taken by a man and to completely immerse myself into that experience. I have always wanted to experience making love from the femme point of view and this is often a source of my 'confusion' and anxiety. As a 'man' I have no interest in men; as Nikki, I have lots of interest.
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No sex is Habit forming? LOLHell.... being married forever.... I have't had sex period in decades!!! lol Let alone enfeme..... I should have been a nun!!! I look great in black and white!!
I find my SO in sexy panties, rather hot at times, but with any type of love making, eventually they come off. (hehe)
can't say I would find him, attractive in that erotic sense when in total 'femme' mode
I think it has to do alot with the comfort zone you have with your partner
Do it 2-3 times a week in femme. Lots of fun . Always wear 3-7 pettis at once. Wife only dislikes the breast forms. I think there is competition here. I always wear a full slip or camisole over my bra .
I love it. I have found that find the sexual intensity of my lover is raised multifold and he seems to last longer when she knows there is no fear of being ridiculed. Ever since my first experience at college, I think the excitement of a man enfemme is contagious.
"It takes a real man to dress as a woman."
Paige,
My wife agrees with you on this point. Especially the intensity issue.
I agree totally . I think there is also the gorgeous tension that awaits . After dressing we normally sit, cuddle, watch a movie , perhaps share a drink or two. Then its almost like the brakes are off and the cars screaming out of control heading at great speed towards the fast lane of the sexual highway......
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