I am posting this(my first) here because I need advice from other CD's and not their SO. I have been married for 12yrs, my husband has always liked pantyhose and a few years ago he started wearing them himself, about 2 1/2 yrs ago it evolved into full fledge CDing (he admitted that he has loved womens clothing since he was a child. I went through the emotions I needed to go through (I never disapproved) to become comfortable with it myself. I accept it 100% and research and encourge his CD. My husband still has insecurity with it, he is afraid I will get tired of it and leave him (never going to happen) I have tried to show my support by doing his make-up, encourging him to name his female persona, asking if "bethany" and I can have a slumber party (paint nails, do hair, etc..) , buying outfits for him as a surprise (I know what he likes, and he has better taste then I do).
What I need help with is what else can I do to help him feel more secure with his CD and to prove that I am in love with bethany just as
much as I'm in love with my DH ,do I have to let him do it himself and just be supportive?
Please any advice will be read with an open mind and heart. I love him more today then the day we married and only want to make him the happiest I can.