anyone been a bridesmaid?

[laceyjessica]

has anyone been a bridesmaid, or a bride for that matter, would love to know

[celeste26]

This is a frequent fantasy in the literature and I am certain that someone has tried to fulfill this little idea. If you're out there let us know...

[Taffy]

A bridesmaid or bride, no, but I would love the opportunity to be the flowergirl. She is the only one permitted to outdress the bride at a wedding and flowergirl dresses are sooooo cute...

[Deborah Jane]

If anyone ever needs a bridesmaid i,m always available..Please!!

[Caitlin Rose]

Go down a few posts. It seems that in 2005 there was a lively discussion on the topic http://www.tennesseebridal.com/fashi...ringbearer.asp

Also, my first attempt at TG fiction, called "Flower Girl" is posted at Fictionmania.

[lucya_od]

A bridesmaid or bride,i could only wish, but I would love the opportunity to get married or be a bridesmaid.

[Taffy]

Go down a few posts. It seems that in 2005 there was a lively discussion on the topic http://www.tennesseebridal.com/fashi...ringbearer.asp

I definitely would have enjoyed being asked to be a flowergirl when I was growing up and would have jumped at the opportunity with relish and gusto. Instead, when I was caught wearing a girl's dress, I got the beating of my life. That did not make the desire go away; it merely suppressed it for a long time.

[fran46]

My fantasy life revolves around imagining myself as a submissive lesbian, and that's the mindset I invariably slip into when I'm dressed, starting from the second I fasten up my bra and not ending until I roll down my pantyhose and tuck them back in the drawer.

Anyway, from the point of view of the bride, there is a distinct submissiveness inherent in the traditional trappings and rites of a wedding. To begin with, she's dressed and fussed over by her friends -- as if she's totally incapable of preparing herself -- and many times something like a row of two dozen buttons down the back of her gown renders her virtually incapable of getting into it unassisted, not to mention confined once she has it on. Then, she's escorted down the aisle, she's given away by her parents, she's wearing a veil that obscures her vision, she's in a dress that is either so flowing or so tight that it restricts her movement, she's ostentatiously kissed by her new husband at the end of the service in a way that implies how he will boldly ravish her later. Etc., etc.

For me, all of that has long had great, even overwhelming, appeal. A few years ago, when I spent a wonderfully satisfying week living out my submissive-lesbian fantasy with a dominatrix, one entire day was devoted to turning me into a bride and putting me through both a wedding ceremony and the honeymoon night, as well as the girly preparations that precede them -- the whole nine yards.

During the morning and early afternoon, my dom and her assistant -- her lesbian partner -- drove me to a beauty salon for a facial and acrylic nails, then gave me an hour-long makeup session at their home. It took them forever to get my eyeliner perfected to their satisfaction. Shortly thereafter, I was laced firmly into a corset. And I'll never forget the moment when they lifted my bridal dress -- a pearl-bedecked sheath I had purchased at David's Bridals -- over my head and let it slither down my body. Joy, delight, wonder.

Next came my veil and headpiece, which they pinned to my wig several different times in order to get it just right. Then, for 15 minutes, they smoothed my dress, touched up my cosmetics, and generally pampered me, just as bridesmaids would. They even gave me a bouquet, which had been delivered only minutes before by a florist. I pricked my left palm as I gripped it. Appropriate, somehow.

It was a transcendent experience. I not only felt fully female but also seemed to have no memory of my male consciousness. I was aware only of the slight weight of the mascara on my eyelashes, the pinch of clip-on earrings on my lobes, the perfume, the tension of my bra straps, the enveloping satin that fit my form so smoothly, the wispy tendrils of my wig artfully dropping onto my forehead, the blissful happiness, the anticipation, the exhilaration, the womanly knowledge that I looked as good as I possibly could, that I was attractive. Thanks to the veil, everything I saw was as if I was somewhere deep inside a cloud. I was living in the moment more than I ever had. I was totally at peace. Floating. Happy.

The ceremony that they had planned called for me to kneel before the dom -- try that in a floor-length sheath dress and three-inch heels, if you want to feel a feminine helplessness -- and recite a couple hundred words of pledges and vows that she had ordered me to write and memorize the night before. Essentially, it was a cross between a lesbian-bonding service and a BDSM collaring ceremony. I submitted to it, to her. To my own desires.

After that, I was taken to a bedroom, where I was gently stripped of my wedding gown, tied spreadeagle to the bed with what seemed like hundreds of feet of crisp white rope, and left to ponder my fate. Two scented candles provided the only illumination. I wore just a bra, garter belt and stockings. I shivered a little bit as I lay there. Was it cold or nervousness? The wait seemed forever.

Eventually, thirty minutes later, my dom came striding in and took me. I was fastened immovably to the bed, yet carried away.

It remains among the most emotionally rich days of my life.

I'm sure that's how brides remember their weddings.

[MarinaTwelve200]

This subject is one of the most ellusive in all of CDdom. Despite both CD fantasy stories and several intriguing "first hand accounts" from photographers, wedding party participants, and alleged "victims" themselves, in some forums, I have YET to find any pictures ANYWHERE of a man or a boy "bridesmaid".

Its a popular fantasy , to be sure, and the RL accounts (even in mainstream forums) suggest it happens a lot more than one would think, I have yet to find any documentation of it. Considering what ELSE we can find on the internet, I find the lack of such info very odd indeed.

[misscdlee]

To a prom party dressed in a pretty knee length and flared out prom dress with a two layer petticoat underneath. Everyone knew I was a guy and we had so much fun. I was humiliated a lot. Everyone thot I was just doing it for fun. And they didnt know I had a bra, panties ans slip under all. What a night of fun and excitement for me.

[harmony]

a few years back i was invited to my neighbors wedding.
i wore a robinegg blue tailored silk suit from the 40s with a white widebrimmed hat white heals bag and gloves.one of the highlights of my crossdressing past.

[Joy Carter]

This subject is one of the most illusive in all of CDdom. Despite both CD fantasy stories and several intriguing "first hand accounts" from photographers, wedding party participants, and alleged "victims" themselves, in some forums, I have YET to find any pictures ANYWHERE of a man or a boy "bridesmaid".

Its a popular fantasy , to be sure, and the RL accounts (even in mainstream forums) suggest it happens a lot more than one would think, I have yet to find any documentation of it. Considering what ELSE we can find on the internet, I find the lack of such info very odd indeed.

[Danielle Hyatt]

I would love to be a bridesmaid or a bride if the groom was a woman

Your Friend
Dan

[Julie York]

Go down a few posts. It seems that in 2005 there was a lively discussion on the topic http://www.tennesseebridal.com/fashi...ringbearer.asp

Also, my first attempt at TG fiction, called "Flower Girl" is posted at Fictionmania.

That wasn't the link I had in mind but there was a very 'lively' discussion as I recall. If you hang around long enough they all come around.

[Kate Simmons]

Nope but I have all the accouterments for both and am ready anytime. And you all thought I was a just a rip roarin' tomboy.

[lizbendalin]

As has been mentioned, this is indeed one of the most common fantasies in the CD world. I though, know of one CD friend who was a bridesmaid in a real wedding, and I've seen the pictures. It does happen, though I think very rarely. Here's a link to a pic, for proof.

[vivianann]

I would love to be a bridesmaid.

[Amy Hepker]

When I got married to my second wife, she knew I liked to dress and had been telling me for weeks before the wedding that on our Honeymoon she would make me wear her dress.(make me wear it ya right, I wanted too) She did let me wear it the night of the Honeymoon
in our hotel room. We needed ice and she told me to go get some, but I was too chicken back then, I really wished I would have now.

I also got to wear that dress for Holloween one year too, that was a great time.


I had a wedding dress once, but only wore it at home.

[Angie G]

I have had a wedding dress on but I wasn't mine and I 've never been a bride or bridesmaid But would love to be.
Angie

[Nicki B]

A friend of mine was bridesmaid at her elder brother's wedding, last year..

[laceyjessica]

i am always avaliable either to be a bride or bridesmaid, i love all the stories

[Joy Carter]

As has been mentioned, this is indeed one of the most common fantasies in the CD world. I though, know of one CD friend who was a bridesmaid in a real wedding, and I've seen the pictures. It does happen, though I think very rarely. Here's a link to a pic, for proof.

Kinda odd that all the dresses don't match, don't ya think ?

[lizbendalin]

Kinda odd that all the dresses don't match, don't ya think ?

I know it's hard to believe, but I've seen all the pictures, so I know this is legit. It was not a 'traditional' wedding ceremony, as both bride and groom were not all that attached to societies sometimes rigid standards regarding people or actions. I stand by the picture, and the fact that my friend Laura was in fact a bridesmaid.

[susan2010]

I don't want to be a bride, but Someday, maybe I'll get up the nerve to try on and buy a wedding dress. They usually have them at great prices at Goodwill and Salvation Army.

[Helen MC]

When I was a bit younger and slimmer in my 20s I bought a bridesmaid's dress and used to wear it at home with a nice pair of lacy trimmed panties beneath.

Nowadays I am plump and middle aged and would be a Matron of Honour .