With all due respect? Do you have any idea how many GG's are on this board and how many of them are 100% accepting, even looked for a CD partner specifically? No? Obviously not, or you wouldn't make such stupid sweeping statements like this. There are over 150 GG's on this board, so stating one GG is the exception to the rule is
Some days, it's easier just to ignore stupid comments like this, other days, it's just as easy to and let you know just what I think of it!!!
Shiny, you did the right thing, my advice, keep communication open, don't force too much down her throat in one go, but most of all, DON'T LIE! Tell her the truth, because you've started telling her now, if you leave stuff out and she finds out, trust me, it will cause more harm than good.
Oh, one more thing, take no notice of Melinda G, she has no clue what she's talking about...
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