Like many others on here and out in the big wide world that we live in, I too used to fear of loosing my "manly image" and the respect that I thought that I had taken so long to earn in most others eyes. This is why I, as most others do, had hidden my dirty little secret away from everyone else except my lovely wife, with whom I share most every thing with.
Well after coming to this site and learning more about CD'ing, starting to go out and finally getting my wife involved I have come to the realization that in the grand scheme of things it really boils down to that most of this fear is self generated and usually unfounded.
Sure, some people will naturally change their views about you, and having recently lived through this I know, it really is no big deal!
As an example, Sheena told her family about me. I was cool with it and all and when we came for a visit in Feb they were actually nicer to me than they had been in years! After they left word got back to us that her sister and husband were surprised that there was nothing different about me. They were like, "they seemed normal to me" and were over it totally.
Well, of course nothing was different as I am still the same person I have always been.
I think that as long as you are the same person as you have always been it shows people that learn your little secret that there is nothing to fear from you and to treat you as you have always been treated.
So to put it as one once said,
There is nothing to fear but fear it's self" (at least in my world )