View Poll Results: What's Your wife's position on your Cding?

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  • Participates and encourages.

    138 36.90%
  • Just accepts.

    69 18.45%
  • Tolerates.

    71 18.98%
  • She doesn't want to see you dressed.

    85 22.73%
  • Battle scene everytime.

    17 4.55%
  • Wife is an ex-wife because of your CDing.

    22 5.88%
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Thread: What's Your Wife's Position?

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    Quote Originally Posted by RobertaFermina View Post
    Not married yet....so I didn't vote.

    My dearly devoted S.O. participates and encourages.

    Roberta
    Technically, I'm not married either, but I've been living with the same woman for two years now.

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    My wife only tolerates my dressing. It is never discussed and I only dress when she is away from home.
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    Why, On top of course!

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    my so does have a tomboy side but is also girly and sometimes doesnt admit it...but she is actually accepting of me and my dressing....that has been such a blessing in our relationship...because I couldnt keep it from her much longer...the thought of her finding out before me telling her was killing me inside more and more every day....but I have been blessed with someone who loves me no matter what...and is actually kinda in to me getting all dressed up and cute....lately she has been looking for things to get me when she has gone shopping....found some super cute pairs of shoes...and to top it all off she wears the same shoe size as me....yay time for shoe sharing

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    wifes position?

    Ussually on the bottom and sometimes on top and sometimes in all sorts of fun positions. Oh you meant about my crossdressing? Well she is a work in progress as I am also.

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    Just started to accept me

    Hi Girls

    I just talked to my wife the other night and she just started to accept me as dressing as a woman. I hope she like what she sees.

    Paula

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nadia-Maria View Post
    I found it was not possible to make the difference between :

    "Wife tolerates" and
    "She doesn't want to see you dressed".

    That's exactly my wife's position :

    She tolerates my crossdressing provided that she doesn't see me dressed.

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    my wife knows not accepting at all ...... her position??? arms crossed head shaking ... eyes rolling back and that you freak look ... but it's better than it was before lol........

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    wife's position

    as of jan 9. 2008, deceased. before that, totally supportive. we shopped together, and she let me dress whenever the urge arose, except once - in 25 yrs. RIP, and god bless. I will always love her. I am wearing her rings on a chain around my neck and will until i die.

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    Possible divorce in the near future. I'm not happy and she surely is not happy. We are still together for the kids and I don't think it's enough to help mend things.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TGMarla View Post
    What's Your Wife's Position?

    Usually missionary.






    Sorry. Couldn't help it.
    That's exactly what I thought when seeing the topic.
    Dana Ryan

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    At first she accepted it, even told me I had great girl legs. Later she was Ok as long as she did not see me dressed. Finally she left because I would not stop shaving legs and torso. Now I am happy and free to dress as often as I want.

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    she is cool with it .sometimes she hates me cause i look sexier than her!lol.

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    We are married 36yrs, my wife has known for over 25yrs. She doesnt want to see me dressed. But I hang my femme clothes in our closet. I get out about 1time a month. I also go to Fantasia fair each year for 3 or 4 days. Im luckier than some and not as licky as others. I think she prays that it will go away, but knows it wont. We talk about it very seldom. Otherwise we have a good marriage.
    Terri

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    Quote Originally Posted by jozee View Post
    as of jan 9. 2008, deceased. before that, totally supportive. ....
    So sorry to hear about your loss. It sounds like she was a wonderful wife, loving and accepting you for who you are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jozee View Post
    as of jan 9. 2008, deceased. before that, totally supportive. we shopped together, and she let me dress whenever the urge arose, except once - in 25 yrs. RIP, and god bless. I will always love her. I am wearing her rings on a chain around my neck and will until i die.
    my sincerest condolences

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    My wife is somewhere between "Participates and encourages" and "Just accepts", although probably nearer the latter. She does like it when I wear panties 24/7 and wear stocking to bed since they seems to turn her on, but other than on a rare occasion buying me a pair of panties, she take a passive roll with my CDing.
    I know I'm pretty lucky, but I wish she'd take a more active roll, like buy me something sex or asking me to wear something other than panties.
    I've been talking to her about taking a more active roll and I might be making a little headway, but it's too early to tell.
    Oh, by the way, she new about and accepted my CDing before we were married.

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    She accepts, but still doesn't want to see me dressed. She was more supportive in the past. Especially before our son was born, but things change.
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    I was going to add that i am probably in the accepts category at the moment but previously it was a more active participation. Having kids sort of changed things to the point where she asked that i curtail dressing around my kids and i concurred for a variety of reasons.

    She was going out of town recently with the kids and did ask about if i was planning on dressing and then bought me some new makeup so that was nice. i took that as a positive sign.

    I do see a flip side to this though. i get more of a chance to really work on technique now. both clothing and makeup. originally it was like when are you getting out of the bathroom i want to see what you look like and i might only end up wearing lingerie. But i do miss those days. but soon enough...

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    My dear wife is comletely OK with it now. I just stay in the house. We are talking about me going out dressed, but I have a lot of work to do first.

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    [SIZE="3"][SIZE="3"]Not a wife but GG GF has known for 2 years and might be the thing that stops her from marrying me. She does go out with the girls to dinner and dancing but I do push my limit at times, and she is quick to point that out.[/SIZE][/SIZE]
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    Accepting

    My wife is accepting. I only dress in private. She helps me pick out clothes. She helps me with my shopping. She even helps do my make-up at times.

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    100percent with me.We go out dressed together,shop for cloths and makeup together. She also took me to get my first makeover.Shes awesome
    Blonde and beautiful Yea!! Summer is here

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    Still in the up in the air position on what she thinks. What is the Missonary position for.
    I will follow my heart

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    Seems the only replies I have is to this sort of question and 100% support from my wife of 18 yrs.

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