This is a repeat of what I posted on dailystrength.com, but I was told this forum was a lot more active, so I wanted to post it here.
I know it's probably a stupid question considering how you know you're certain is a personal thing, but I'm wondering. I was born a female, but for years I've identified more as male. I've worn boys clothes for years, and I'm happy with people mistake me for a guy. I do crossdress, but not outside of anime conventions where I am dressing as a male character. I would like to start crossdressing in public some time soon, though. I am sexually attracted to men more so than women, though I have had an attraction to one or two women. I am incredibly frustrated, not knowing who I really am, and I hope I can figure this out sooner rather than later.
The other thing is I don't want to tell my friends or anyone in my family until I know. I'm afraid of losing people, even thought i know that my real friends will accept me. I am just afraid that people I consider good friends will run away. I apologize if I am all over the place in my description, my head is just going in a million different directions at once right now. Any advice anyone can give me would be appreciated.