Originally Posted by
Vanessac48
There isn't a right or wrong answer to all this, but I guess this thought passed through my mind, and wanted to hear some thoughts on it. Some CD's are married, with a wide variety of feelings by their wife, if they know about it, from very accepting, to outright divorce material, and everything inbetween. So here is my question. What if we as a crossdresser, had a wife, girlfriend, significant other, etc. that was exactly like us, but loved wearing men's clothes, cologne, cut there hair butch short, let their body hair grow, put on a fake bulge, and wore either a fake beard, mustache or both? then they wanted us to sleep with them like that, or go out with them. How would you feel? We expect women to understand, and I'll answer this question from my own feelings. If I had a wife/girlfriend,etc. that did that, I'd not be too accepting. it would be very strange to me, so I guess I'm the pot calling the kettle black so to speak. Just being blantantly honest here. Before I asked myself this question, I asked another, why would it be so hard for a woman to understand? When I put the shoe on the other foot, I guess I answered that question myself, at least how it pertains to me. It just helps me understand another's point of view. I would just find it difficult kissing a wife with a beard, men's cologne, etc, but I think in some respects, I would expect a woman to kiss me when I am wearing fake boobs, perfume, lipstick and eyeliner. Maybe as men, we have the lesbian fantasy, so this seems more normal, than for us to be putting our arms around another apparent man, because we love femininity. Your thoughts?