Seems a lot of people on these forums call each other girls or refer to themselves as girls. I was just wondering if anyone else thought of themselves as a guy and everyone else as guys.
Seems a lot of people on these forums call each other girls or refer to themselves as girls. I was just wondering if anyone else thought of themselves as a guy and everyone else as guys.
It's just an observation of mine but I think the term 'guy' has lost it's masculine tag and is more uni-sex now. I'll overhear a group of GG's talking and one will say something like "do you guys want to go have a drink?' So I think it has been emasculated and turned into a neutral term.
Jen
I'm a guy. Always was, always will be.
I think of most of the "girls" here as guys too, except the TS girls.
Strangely, I consider the FTM guys as guys and not girls. I think this is because they are, in my view, further along the spectrum than your typical CDing male.
DJ
Girls will be boys and boys will be girls.
It's a mixed up, muddled up, shook up world.
I consider myself as a girl,
I'm a womanand I call everyone guys...
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Missing my Libra babe Sherlyn, I hope she's rocking up there with the angels
Missing our Rianna, doesn't seem right, gone to early, hope she's partying with Sherlyn
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see this is the thing as long as your happy you can call your self anything you want .... while talking to or abought person's in general guy's cover every one .... some person's want to be called or thought abought girls/ women.... that's cool ....i think it's one of two things the birth gender (right or wrong) as you see you.... or as you want to be seen.......
and the FTM'S are "THE GUY'S" here
A mixture of the two...
The best of both worlds.
combine the first 2 letters of guy with the last 2 letters of girl, and you get gurl, and that's what i am, so i agree with deborah
Although i'm a witch, I can be nice as well (honestly)
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I am a GURL.
I really think of myself as a guy wearing a dress (once in a while). I use a fem name because lots of others do, and it's an easy alias. After being on this forum for a few months, and going to a few meetings, I've come to appreciate the range of personalities among us.
When I'm here with all of you I think of myself and all of you as girls it just seems right.
Angie
Here in this part of the forum, we do each other the courtesy of referring to each other as their preferred gender. Same to the fellas in the T-Masculine areas. So I guess we're girls here. They're guys there.
I don't identify with myself in my everyday life as a female, although I think about it quite a bit. Even when I'm dressed I'm still me, a male, albeit with a heck of a lot of feminine feelings and mannerisms. But here, I'm free to actually "be" female for a short while, and it's a luxury I'll take.
Any money found in the laundry is MINE!
"This is no social crisis....this is me having fun!"
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A man in a short skirt and hot stiletto heels. That is my mode for meeting chicks. They respond more favorably, than when I am conventionally attired.
I think it is a sex thing.
Couldn't have said it better myself!Originally Posted by deborah jane
(Gee Debs, we really do think alike!)
Also my experience. Hard to figure, but it works for me!
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Central Iowa
"Silence is golden,duct tape is silver."
"You can never be to rich, to thin or wear too high heels."[/SIZE]
You know some people are too hung up about that. I am a guy who is trying for the illusion of looking like a woman. I am very comfortable with that. To recognize the effort I have no issue with someone referring to me with the female pronoun. I could care less and in fact it just comes off as playfulness. So i agree with Marla on that.
For others this is serious business, this is their life, their identity and they don't take anyone being casual so well. I think we should all respect that we have multiple directions that we are coming from to meet here.
U said what I was thinking. Only more coherently and completely!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
MJ , I am a woman ..i was just born in a guys body ...
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Gurl
Most definitely a girl. When I talk to myself I say girl or lady or Rita.
I think of the MTF's here as girls.
I think of myself as the forum Comedian, and therefore, I me label myself as "Comedy Admin."
I don't see anyone as a gender and only refer to someone as guy or girl depending on their preference.
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[SIZE="3"]"We're all born naked. Everything we wear is drag," said Boy George
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I am most definitely male.
And I think of everyone else here as male too.
Just a guy wearing what is currently defined as female clothing.
I am a guy that loves to dress like a girl. Today I went hunting and dressed like a hunter. I guess it is dependant on how your dressed. I don't mind being called guy or girl. Just happy to be here.
No, those are my Panties]
Im just a guy in pretty clothes Ü
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