How would you feel about your daughter dating a c/der?

[Deborah Jane]

Hiya..After a recent discussion with my daughter [who i came "out" to last year], she asked me how i would feel if she started dating a crossdresser?
So...
How would you feel if your daughter wanted to date or was dating a crossdresser?..
Or if you are dating, what would your reaction be if you discovered your girlfriends father was a crossdresser?
Everyone is welcome to answer this!!

BTW my answer to my daughter was that i couldn,t really object provided he was a decent guy, treated her right and she wanted to be with him!

[darla_g]

i agree with deborah jane's comment about him being a decent guy.

[az_azeel]

Thats a good question debs... and like you say as long as he treated her right and looked after her.. plus it could be a good thing to bring a father in law very close to a future son in law.. if both were known to each other as c/ders .. it could well develop into a special bond...

[MJ]

as long as he treated her right and looked after her..sure why not

[Maria2004]

I wouldn't think anyone who is a crossdresser, would find it objectionable if he were a good person. I don't have any daughters, but 3 grown son's all married, so I turned it around in my head and had one of my daughter in laws as a FtM CD...........nope, still not a problem if my son found a soul mate he was happy with

[Julie York]

Thats a good question debs... and like you say as long as he treated her right and looked after her.. plus it could be a good thing to bring a father in law very close to a future son in law.. if both were known to each other as c/ders .. it could well develop into a special bond...

You're going to give me nightmares now.
68 year old CD father-inlaw?

"Oh let's all go clubbing Pops......Nice G-string btw."



Anyway, in answer to the thread question.

I don't have a daughter, so I can only imagine what it's like as a Father, but as I sort of have a grasp of the subject and understand it, it wouldn't bother me.

[Deborah Jane]

Thanks for answering...
I think i asked this in the wrong place
Maybe i should ask the same question somewhere they don,t understand us

[Julie York]

Thanks for answering...
I think i asked this in the wrong place
Maybe i should ask the same question somewhere they don,t understand us

So how did you do in the Reggea Forum "Would you mind if your daughter dated a black guy?"

[Tammy298]

Well, I have an adult daughter and a much younger one still at home.
I agree that as long as he's a decent guy, I wouldn't have any problem with it. Other than the possible advantage of one day coming out to my daughter with a line like: "Oh he likes dressing in womens clothes? No problem, we can share some tips!"
On the serious side, she lived with a real jerk for a couple years who was abusive, almost driving me to go after him with a baseball bat! Anyway, a wrapper does not a man make!

[Paula G]

As long as the person she was seeing was good to her and she really loved him, it wouldn't bother me at all.

[Deborah Jane]

Thanks for the aggreement everyone...
I was just chatting with my daughter about it and according to what she said very few teenagers consider this to be that unusual now!!
Her and most of her friends just see this as just another thing people do, not anything special!!
Nothing to be worried about!!

[danielle_from_cal]

[SIZE=3]Aside from thinking "Holy cow! I have a daughter" (since I don't) I would have no problem as long as the guy had all the usual qualities that most fathers want in their daughters' boyfriends: a good job (or good prospects), good attitude, ambition, no criminal record, no drug use, etc. Otherwise, I could not imagine caring (unless my daughter cared).[/SIZE]

[Jenny J]

I agree with Deborah

If he is a decent guy and treats her right, who cares what he wears and when. My own experience with my daughters bf's have been that they've lied, cheated and stole things from her and put her is tight financial straits.

It's what is on the inside and not the outside that matters.

Just so long as he tells me where he gets his cute outfits and shares makeup tips. That's when he'll be OK in my book!

Jen

[Tammy298]

Thanks for the aggreement everyone...
I was just chatting with my daughter about it and according to what she said very few teenagers consider this to be that unusual now!!
Her and most of her friends just see this as just another thing people do, not anything special!!
Nothing to be worried about!!

Ah, to be young again!

[Natalie K]

I wouldn't judge anyone for the type of clothes they wear, ever. A sensible, intelligent person with a big heart is where it's at. I love my daughter and I only want what's best for her that's all. Now if he ever hurt her I would wrap his panties around his neck lol.

[Veronica 1]

It's what is on the inside and not the outside that matters.

J

Jen

I totally agree. A kind and gentle soul is better than an otherwise desirable person any day.

[Jilmac]

If either of my daughters, or my granddaughters for that matter,decided to date a cd'er I would tell them that the clothes one wears don't make them who they are, that it's what's on the inside that counts. I would be supportive of anybody who treated my girls with love and respect, and I would tell the girls to go for it. Luv and Jill

[victoriamwilliams1]

Hears the conversation,

(daughter)Dad _____ has a secret he want to tell you! (bf) Were getting married and I want to try on your little black dress.

[Rachel Morley]

I'm with the others .... if the boyfriend is a nice person that's what matters most. If he was a crossdresser too?... awesome! That would be fantastic! We'd have some great family dinners ... Thanksgiving, Christmas etc

[LilSissyStevie]

As long as he's not one of those frigid crossdressers. I've got three unmarried daughters left and I want more grandchildren!

[docrobbysherry]

What if it turned out he was a CD like me? Brrrr! Horrible thot, that!

[KandisTX]

I gotta agree with others.. as long as he didn't treat her wrong and all, who cares

Kandis

[jessicapetite]

I wouldn't think anyone who is a crossdresser, would find it objectionable if he were a good person. I don't have any daughters, but 3 grown son's all married, so I turned it around in my head and had one of my daughter in laws as a FtM CD...........nope, still not a problem if my son found a soul mate he was happy with

I am new what is FtM

[mylitta]

Well my daughter did for a while and had a great time. Her CD bf was great fun in both girl and guy modes. This was long before I met my present partner, btw so I didn't know that much about it then.

[TxKimberly]

. . . provided he was a decent guy, treated her right and she wanted to be with him! . . .

Can't add much to that. In the end, what is most important is that she is happy.