just reading through some of the threads and replys, i felt like sharing this. i am single, i live alone, and i dress as a woman most of the time when at home. i am not out by any means, but, there are a few people who know i dress. two of these people happen to be my parents, who drop by almost monthly unannounced, putting me in the worst situation i know. do i change and answer the door? or do i sit still, not making a sound untill they leave? i hate when they do that, but i feel guilty the times i dont answer cause they are getting up in years, and i dont ever want to think to myself that if i only woulda changed and answered the door, i could have had one more day with them. i hate the selfishness this lifestyle creates, but i couldnt be myself if it wasnt for these desires, either. such a pickle.