I know I will upset a few good number of people on here, but I for one speak my mind and if that is not your cup of tea then I do not apologise. If you want me to sugar coat my views or responses to post then sorry that won't happen.
I certainly see it on most forums regarding the TG community but it seems prevalent on here.
A poster posts a pic of themself and asks what other forum members think.
Why do so many people say "you look great" or "you are hot" or "you pass" etc etc when it is obviously not the case. They look terrible but still people persist telling them the above which IMO is actually does more harm than telling them they look terrible or they need to look at changing this or that aspect of their dressing.
What on earth is the achievment in telling someone a lie and have them believe they look great and or they can pass. The only thing that will achieve is that person thinking everything is great and they go out and get abuse, insults etc because they look terrible.
If you really want to help someone, tell them the truth............they deserve that.
So before you unleash your response, at least take a few minutes and think about what I am saying and maybe your response will be different.
Xx Vicky xX