Sexual experiences with women while you're CD?

[gueebster]

Sorry if this question has been asked many times before. I've looked through the forum and not found it, but feel free to get all angry at me if it is a common question, i'm just intereted.

So, what i'd like to know is, how many of you have had sexual (or sensual) experiences of any kind with women, whilst you have been dressed up? This is a fantasy of mine, so i'm keen to see your answers.

Sub-question: Do you think there are there enough adventurous, open minded women out there interested in sex with a CD in full regalia for this fantasy to be achieved in anything other than a lucky fluke?

[lisalove]

I had a girlfriend for a short while that loved for both of us to dress in our sexiest lingerie, and make love like two lesbians. There was never any penatration on my part. Quite frankly those times were the best sex I ever had.
As far as you 2nd question. I don't think there are that many open minded women out there. It is hard enough just trying to find a woman who can accept our dressing. At least that has been my experience.

[gueebster]

wow lisa you lucky girl. With most women's latent bi-sexual interests, you'd think more women would be keen to try the middle-man. mind the pun. anyone else?

[MarciManseau]

Daily, almost. I'm full time and I live with my gg gf Julie. We luv sex!

Hugs, Marci and Julie

[Josephine 1941]

Hi Queebster, I don't know how old you are, but here in Fl there seems to be quite a few women in the over 60 group that love men who dress. I have had a least 4 different girl friends that loved to make love with me dressed as a women. I am now living with a women that realy gets off when we make love, I guess maybe I have been in the right place at the right time. My girl friend loves to shop with me an we buy matching outfit , but the best part is we are the same size in cloths and shoes We are a 16 in cloths an 10 1/2 in shoes my feet are a wide but she dosent mind. I just got home from a card game with the guys, got on here for a little bit. Now have to get my boobs, bra ,night gound because she loves me dressed when she wakes up,in the night some times an sex is great. My thing was to tell any women right up front that I was a CD, that way I found that i did not get my self all worked up. I wear panties all the time so if you are out and meet some one an know u are heading for the bed room there no surprize. I have found that most of these women really get off on a man in womens cloths. Good luc

Josephine

[gueebster]

thats great josephine, thanks for your input! I should have said before but I didnt realise, I was referencing women around my own age, and I'm 21. Of course the more mature women would be more open minded. Women around my age are probably generally much less secure with doing something they see as 'kinky' or just plain 'wrong' in their mainstream sociological conformity. Do excuse me if I'm being pretensious.

[Laurelanne]

My wife and i do it alot she likes it too... i know im lucky. Also when I was in my 20s on the road i met a lady a little older who RREALLY luved it it was a fabulos week. Have fun.The truth IS out there.

[trannie T]

Does kissing a lesbian count?

[Dalece]

I have Lesbian friends and one night one of them said if you wern't a male I would take you up stairs with me. But on the other hand I was at a masquerade Ball two weekss a go and I had so many GGs come up to me a comment the way I looked and it was like I was one of the girls. I don't know if anything would have happened but waiting for that day.

[RikkiOfLA]

Too late, Gueebster, you mentioned that you were specifically asking about women in their early 20s. I'd already decided to chime in when I read that. May I still?

I'm not in my early 20s, far from them. And I'm really interested in women my own age.

In my lifetime I've found and married two wonderful women who've accepted and loved me dressed.

The first passed away in 2006 after we'd been married 28 wonderful years. We celebrated our 28th (and last) wedding anniversary as two brides and went on our last honeymoon to San Francisco (site of our 1st honeymoon, and many later ones) soon after. I'll never forget climbing hills with her, clamboring onto cable cars, worshiping at Grace Cathedral, and dining at Alioto's on Fisherman's Wharf, both of us looking our best in pretty skirted outfits! Yes, we often made love with me in "play clothes" of lingerie, pantyhose, heels, and so on. Nothing better! I'll especially remember the last time, with her dying of cancer, her hair lost to chemotherapy, her body grotesqued by her illness, hard for her to move, hard for me to find physically attractive, yet I still loved passionately the spirited woman inside her, and by golly, I proved it to her that day! It was the hardest and most beautiful thing I think I've ever done.

My second wife is an old friend, who's really never known me any other way than openly and unashamedly feminine. She came out to help take care of my first wife, and, as it turned out, to take care of me, because I had a triple bypass operation during that time! Our love was born in shared adversity, hers being the betrayal by an unfaithful and greedy spouse who finally divorced her during this time. The last time she saw me dressed male (my first wife's funeral) she saw how uncomfortable I was that way, and asked me not to, ever again. She has told me I'm the first person she has ever truly loved physically. Yes, my dressing feminine can be a turn on for her. Since someone raised the issue, I'm going to say that our lovemaking does involve penetration, but it also involves the slowness and gentleness that I believe we crossdressers can share with genetic women.

I have indeed been blessed in my life, far beyond my wildest dreams!

To those of you who are looking, sometimes fearing that women who like us are non-existent, I would share my vantage point of hope. After all, true love for anyone is nothing short of a miracle, much more a product of trust and the hard work of communication and agreement than dumb luck or settling for someone who's only "pretty good." Don't ever settle! Hold out for that miracle. After all, the Higher Power of the Universe, source of all miracles, loves us as much as anyone else. You deserve it. And if you believe that in your heart, you're more than half way to finding it. I believe that with all my heart! My loving wife, who's sitting right next to me as I type this, bawling my eyes out with sincerity (yeah, this is hard to write!), fully agrees.

Blessings,
Rikki

ps. One part of the world of women, not to be overlooked, is the community of transsexual women. After all, if we can accept ourselves, we can accept each other. Among my friends I count five CD+TS couples, whose relationships are among the strongest and most lasting I know. All started out as friends and discovered true love where they least expected it.

Where and when you least expect it, is where true love is most often found.

[Lilly 40C]

My gg SO and I are both bi and both crossdress. We love exploring all the possibilities. It is fun.

Lilly

[traceyanne]

my wife and i both love getting dressed in our lingerie when we have a bit of special time to ourselfs, other than that its normally just our nighties in bed, which is just as nice

[Jenny J]

In my lifetime I've found and married two wonderful women who've accepted and loved me dressed.

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Rikki

What a touching and enlightening post. You’ve had a unique experience finding two outstanding ladies in your time and loving both. If it was only that easy to find an understanding and accepting woman to share your life with.

I thought it was wonderful how you spoke of your first wife in such a compassionate way despite her torments. A person like that only comes around once in a great while. But lo and behold you find another loving soul to share your life with.

I grieve for your loss but rejoice in your fortuity and wish you well.

I wish more women were like the two you had enter your life.

Best wishes

Jennifer

[ladytrackrunner]

im 21, and i told my first girlfriend about my cding interest... and she wanted to dress me up and get me all beautiful and everything... and i guess it turned her on alot so then we both were turned on and then we went at it!! so just to tell u its an amazing time!! and some girls are very open as long as u are upfront and honest with them!!

[Francine & Frankie]

This probably doesn't count. Escort Service. Girl was my age and also a college student. I was so excited that I pulled a Forrest Gump in my panties.

[Dusk]

My gf loves it. And I love it when she's playing a man. There are plenty of women out there. it's just finding them that can be difficult.

[DemonicDaughter]

This GG prefers it!

[KimberlyS]

My wife found out pre-marriage and we both had the limited information we got from society. So my CDing had to be a fetish and that is how we both dealt with it the few times a year I CDed during the beginning of our marriage. I always felt there was more to it, but I began more and more to feel there was more to it. And in comes the internet information age. It is so great? My finding of the term cross dresser, information, and others. My CDing was never really a fetish, it was just the only way I could explain it with my limited knowledge of it. The relief and realization of who/what I was and I was not the only one. For my wife this moved my CDing from fetish and something she could deal with; to this is who I was and something new to deal with. It is no longer part of our intimate part of our relationship which I have no problems with. It actually explains the feeling of loss in the past when packing up after the deed.

[cinderellaman]

My wife loves it when we dress up in matching lingerie-stockings, undies, bras. It's very HOT for us. We don't do it all the time, maybe 1 or 2 times per month>

[melissacd]

...it's just finding them that can be difficult.

Agreed.

Also you must be ready to go out and find them, a hard lesson that I have learned. I have skinned my knees a few times now. I am painfully lonely and yet painfully not ready for a relationship and until I am ready I cannot proceed. The question is how do you know when you are ready?

[Deborah Jane]

So, what i'd like to know is, how many of you have had sexual (or sensual) experiences of any kind with women, whilst you have been dressed up?

I wish!!!!

[Rikkicn]

I've met women of all ages that would love to be in a sexual relationship with a crossdresser. They think it would be fun and interesting and love the idea of being with a feminine man.
I've had sex with three different women in the last few weeks while dressed. They loved it and so did I!!!
Don't give up and find out where the alternative life style women go..and go there.

[ggtracy]

I also enjoy being intimate with my boyfriend when he is dressed in femme. but I have known about his dressing since we met and have been sexual with females before. so for me this is an extra special treat.

[Sweet Susan]

Some of the best sex I've ever had was while dressed and with an open minded woman. It has been my experience that there are far too few open minded women on this planet.

[Carroll]

Often with my wife. Its a big turn on for both of us