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    Man sighted in ladies bathing suit

    While I was at the swimming pool the other day with my kids, there was a young guy - mid-twenties I would say - wearing a pink floral ladies bathing suit. He was with three male friends of about the same age. His friends were dressed normally - in male trunks - and they were all going about their swimming activity without a care in the world, despite the large crowd of over 500 people.

    The guys weren't behaving badly, or making any kind of fuss, and it would hardly be worth mentioning, other than the fact that nobody stared and nobody really cared, because there was nothing going on except one guy had chosen for whatever reason to put on a ladies bathing suit.

    I thought the guys had either done it for fun, or the "poor" guy in pink was short of a bathing costume and had to borrow one from a girlfriend. I guess others passed it off for similar reasons.

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    Lucky kid!

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    Well I hope if he did for a bet he got his money from his friends
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    if anything it shows that nobody cares what you wear ...
    i must say he was very brave ..there are still some things i will not do ...and that is one of them ..
    my hat's off to the young man
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    Well whatever the reason, good on him for having the courage to wear a girls swimsuit and, apparently, not being embarassed to be seen in public.
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    Speaking of courage, let me be the one to ask, tucked or untucked?

    I think this will tell us a lot.
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    Untucked. He wasn't trying to pass as a female.

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    I've used a hotel swimming pool and wore a one-piece suit. Usually, that particular pool is hardly used, so I took a chance, went into the ladies' shower room, changed, thinking I would be alone in the pool.
    When I got to the pool, there was a mid-50-ish woman swimming alone. It was do-or-die time for me. So I bit the big one and joined her. She knew I was male...but chatted nicely with me just the same. She actually made me feel so comfortable.
    And yes, I was tucked!

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    MJ,

    Indeed nobody cared, and to be honest I was probably the one that was most concerned because it instantly reminded me that I'm a crossdresser, whereas others probably just laughed it off or ignored it.

    At first I was half-expecting the security guards to come along and haul him away, but seeing as nobody else paid any attention (including all the kids that were there), I realized after a short while that it was just a minor "blip".

    Hmmm, I think I need to go take care of my hangups....
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    Quote Originally Posted by MJ View Post
    if anything it shows that nobody cares what you wear ...
    i must say he was very brave ..there are still some things i will not do ...and that is one of them ..
    my hat's off to the young man
    I agree with this too. Pretty cool that it didn't attract any adverse attention. I love my one piece suits but I too don't have the courage to wear any of them in public, so kudos to him!

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    Thanks for telling us this! I got 4 nice thrift store one pieces!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MJ View Post
    if anything it shows that nobody cares what you wear ...
    i must say he was very brave ..there are still some things i will not do ...and that is one of them ..
    my hat's off to the young man
    I agree about what it probably shows. Having three friends to get into the water with had to help too. I wouldn't do it alone, but if I had two or three friends along, I think that I might have the nerve.

    Quote Originally Posted by MsJoann View Post
    I've used a hotel swimming pool and wore a one-piece suit. Usually, that particular pool is hardly used, so I took a chance, went into the ladies' shower room, changed, thinking I would be alone in the pool.
    When I got to the pool, there was a mid-50-ish woman swimming alone. It was do-or-die time for me. So I bit the big one and joined her. She knew I was male...but chatted nicely with me just the same. She actually made me feel so comfortable.
    And yes, I was tucked!
    While I was at a hotel in Miami last spring, I did this one night. I was tucked and wore some light makeup (just lipstick and some mascara) as well as earrings. I was pretty sure that the pool would be empty, and it was. However, someone in a room a few floors up saw me and called out. I don't think that the person thought anything except that there was a women in the pool (at that distance I probably looked passable, especially in the shadowy light). Anyway, I stayed in only a short time longer and left as a couple came out to swim. I passed them without any hesitation and went back to my room.
    The next day I wore my one-piece during daylight but under a robe and without any make-up or any other femme indicators. I sat by the pool and one time (with robe on) let myself climb part way down one of the ladder to soak my legs and bottom. That method probably looked more odd than anything else would have, but the few people sitting around the pool didn't seem to take any notice more than a casual look.
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    Just curious Emily

    U don't list where u live. Did this happen in the USA? If so, what state?
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    It happened in Belgium, Europe.

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    Bikini Bottoms

    I travle a lot on business and spend almost every night in the hotel hot tub for my arthritis. I pretty much only wear womens bikini bottoms - a la speedo -

    There are so many wonderful florals and neon patterns, as well as high cut designs...

    Men's baggy swim suits (I don't even own one) remind me of gang member garb from East LA...

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    Most of the time people are to busy trying to have fun themselves to notice others or don't want to notice others and spoil their fun.
    Ladies have a GREAT time!
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    I believe that confidence has a lot to do with how others percieve you. If you act confident and happy, people may be curious but respectful. If you avoid eye contact and act embarassed yourself then others pick up on that and it makes them uncomfortable too.

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    I admire the guy for having the guts to do it. That took more courage than I have. I do like womens swim suits though, I have about half a dozen of them for just around the house.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Natalia View Post
    I travle a lot on business and spend almost every night in the hotel hot tub for my arthritis. I pretty much only wear womens bikini bottoms - a la speedo -

    There are so many wonderful florals and neon patterns, as well as high cut designs...

    Men's baggy swim suits (I don't even own one) remind me of gang member garb from East LA...
    OK, I will ask this time. Tucked or untucked?

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    I wear ladies swim shorts as my swim suit. I hate the long trunks that is the style nowa days. I used to wear a speedo but don't have the body for it any more.

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    Well I'll bet he enjoyed it what ever the reason. I would love to swim like that.
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    I'm intrigued by my own reaction to this...

    When I heard the topic, I thought "HOT!" ... and when I heard he was untucked, I thought, "Kinky!"

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    Wish I was him, but I got to ask, WHERE IS THE PHOTO?
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    I'd guess he was probably paying a forfeit for losing a bet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily Anderson View Post
    The guys weren't behaving badly, or making any kind of fuss, and it would hardly be worth mentioning, other than the fact that nobody stared and nobody really cared, because there was nothing going on except one guy had chosen for whatever reason to put on a ladies bathing suit.

    I thought the guys had either done it for fun, or the "poor" guy in pink was short of a bathing costume and had to borrow one from a girlfriend. I guess others passed it off for similar reasons.
    This seems pretty interesting to me.

    If they did it for fun, of if he lost a bet, I would think they would be joking around about it instead of just acting like nothing was out of the ordinary.

    I'm sure they have a different culture going on in Belgium than I'm used to, but it seems extremely unlikely that a guy would wear a women's bathing suit just because he didn't have one. He would likely wear his underwear, or whatever pants he currently had on for swimming before he'd put on a women's suit.

    But I suppose I was envisioning a guy wearing a women's one-piece suit. Are you saying that he was just wearing bikini bottoms? That's really no big deal ... guys wear speedos all the time which are very similar to a women's bikini bottom. I actually wear women's bikini bottoms instead of panties most of the time when I dress because they're more comfortable than any panties I've found.

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