Maybe I'm slightly dim here..........
Some of you have stated that if you have sex with a woman 'en femme' then thats classed you as being a 'lesbian'.
Now if I have sex with a woman dressed as a man then thats hetro sex. If I have sex to a woman dressed as woman then that still hetro sex just kinky/fetish hetro sex not lesbian sex.
Hetro sex is male to female (female to male) with all kinks and fetish thrown in, ie, bondage, dress up games, role plays etc etc.....
Homosexual is male to male or female to female with all the kinks and fetish.
Or maybe I'm just being dim