Well, I'm adopted and my brother and I have seen each other once or twice in our lives. He contacted me, recently and he has lost his job and is in need of a place to stay. He's trying to get on somewhere else, so it wouldn't be a long stay. That's where the problem lies. I dress on a daily basis. Honestly, it feels weird whenever I don't get to. I know it would be bad to just say no to him, but I couldn't go without being en femme every day. So, back to my question. Should I tell him? If so, how would I? The only person I've told that couldnt just tell, it didn't go well. Any suggestions are greatly apreciated. Thanx, April.