are you more femmine than your wife

[Brandy_Marie]

It depends on what you mean by more feminine. It took me a long time to find a decent answer to this. I finally found the Bem Sex Role Inventory (BSRI), which qualifies 60 traits as Masculine, Feminine, or Gender Neutral. According to this, the traits of masculinity and femininity are:

Masculinity: Self-Reliant, Defends Own Beliefs, Independent, Athletic, Assertive, Strong Personality, Forceful, Analytical, Has Leadership Abilities, Willing To Take Risks, Makes Decisions Easily, Self-Sufficient, Dominant, Masculine, Willing to Take A Stand, Aggressive, Acts As A Leader, Individualistic, Competitive, Ambitious

Femininity: Yielding, Cheerful, Shy, Affectionate, Flatterable, Loyal, Feminine, Sympathetic, Sensitive To The Needs Of Others, Understanding, Compassionate, Eager To Soothe Hurt Feelings, Soft-Spoken, Warm, Tender, Gullible, Childlike, Does Not Use Harsh Language, Loves Children, Gentle

By my count:
Masculine traits: Sheryl 12, Brandy Marie 8
Feminine traits: Brandy Marie 12, Sheryl 8

Guess I'm more feminine than my wife, but I already knew that.

Hugs,

Brandy Marie Devereaux

[Donna Delite]

We're finding new ways all of the time that it appears I'm more fem

[Holly]

I've been married to my wife for over 36 years and I'm hoping for another 36. Answering this question could put that goal at risk! She is a warm, caring, loving individual who I get great pleasure in responding to in EVERY way. Competing with her would be tough for ANYONE!

[sarah]

Definately not my wife would never go anywhere unless she has matching lingerie and fully made up..we do however fight over underwear she never seems to think i own any ....at least once a week i have to remind her that something she is wearing is mine ...Quickly she says OH can i borrow it and answers herself by saying thanks before i can speak.....thats why i love her so much ...we share everything ...xoxoxo

[MichelleH]

I wouldn't say I'm more feminine, but I do have more makeup than my wife (by a long shot). I don't think she owns an eyelash curler or false eyelashes, but I do. I know I have more shades of lipstick and eye shadow. I also have more nail polish and nail care products -- she never does her nails and I almost always wear some sort of polish. My nails are longer than hers too.

MichelleH

[mand]

Am I more feminine than my wife..................... Yes without a doubt

love mand xxx

[jo_ann]

when I'm dressed with makeup and she's dressed normal, absolutely. My wife almost never wears makeup, almost never wears a dress (mostly pants/blouses, sometimes t-shirts). She's overweight, has thin lips and bad acne.. Me, I'm overweight but not as bad, I have thick lips for a man, thick eyelashes and pretty clear skin. She gets so jealous sometimes.