wife outed me...now she accepts me
This might get kind of long. I will try to keep it short.
It all started when I took a road trip to Mass. I met with the sisters of Boston. And I had a blast by the way. Well when I got home the wife was not very happy with me. She new I was on a road trip but she didn't now where and she sure didn't think I was going to go out with a bunch of sisters, and way down in Boston at that. So after tax season was over, we had the talk about the hole thing. She was still not real happy with me. When I have made road trips before it did not seem to be a problem, it was always don't ask,don't tell. This time was different for some reason. (maybe the change has something to do with it) I don't know.
So fast forward a few weeks. I am in heaven,it's spring,the birds are chirpen,bees are buzzing,(I love spring),and I am just coming down from the pink fog of meeting the sisters of Boston. I have pulled my camper to it's spring destination and the fishing is good. Life is good, no it's great.
But wile I was at the camper the wife had a birthday party to go to and some of her friends from away were there. Now I did not know it until later but one of her old friends from away was having a rant about friends should be able to tell friends anything. Anything at all, good friends do not have secrets. Now she was talking about another friend. Not her (the wife) and surely not me. My wife says well I beg to differ,some things are ment to be kept secret. Well now the prying starts, what do you have for a secret she says. Well the wife says it's not my secret. More prying, it's your husband isn't it. Yes! and before my wife says anything, her friend says, he is a cross dresser isn't he. Well her jaw hit the floor. How did she know? Turns out she has noticed some the fem things that I do. Like the way I cross my legs. Ya know the little things we do because of the girl inside. Any way they have a little talk. And as a result of that talk I am out to one of my wifes friends.
Now we are at our camper in the woods. We are getting along so well I can't belive it. What's up with that? She must have really needed a break. That's when I find out about her little chat with her friend. OH freeken great!!!! She says the secret is safe with her friend. Ok I hope so I say.
The thing is that because of my trip to Boston, and her talking to someone about my cross dressing, and praying for some direction. She has come to realize that things are not all that bad with us. Cross dressing is not such a big deal. I could be a lot worse. Or do things that are way worse than that. She loves me in every way, so why not love that part of me to. Well sistas a GREAT BIG WOO HOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My wife now loves all of me. Talk about a pink fog. I can't tell you all how good I feel. The wife and I are happier than we have been in years. All because she has come to accept all of me.I thank god for showing my wife the light at the end of the cross dressing tunnel is not a train. I say to the wife. Life is too short. Lets have fun with it hun. No I am not going shopping with you dressed up. Don't push it dear.
I now this was a long post and I am sorry for that. I just wanted to show some of you gals that there is hope for an unaccepting wife. Things at my house are the same as before. I don't dress around the house when she is here. The big change is her acceptance. Oh what a feeling that is. I love her so much that I think we might just grow old together. Another GREAT BIG Woo Woo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Paula, this is awesome news!!
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