Don't know where to strart with this one except to say that because of some jealous idiot I have come out to my son and it's hard. Ok I'm rambling.... Yesterday I was out with my buddy Punkster and a load of other mates from the community cos it was one of their birthdays. I have as you all know been using the male toilets for over a year now. Well last night because of some jerk who can't deal with peeps like me I got asked to leave the male toilets...I was mortified and even though I know that legally they are within their rights I felt like yet another safe haven had been taken away from me. I have talked this threw with a good mate and he has advised that I write a letter to the management of the pubs which are supposed to be gay and trans friendly to put my case forward and express my feelings towards this matter. I may well do that.
Ok the other thing around my son he is very quiet this morning but he's probably still in shock cos his suspicions have been realized and brought to the for. He's been asking me a lot lately and this isn't how i wanted it to come out. Everything happens for a reason or so they say.I'm going to have to deal with everything now full on. Stop denying who I am and come down off the fence. I am scared hell yeah cos deep down I know I'm a man yes there it is I've said it but it makes it no easier right now cos of everything else that surrounds it. I start counselling soon its generic but I don't care I need to talk this through and urgently with someone. The whole thing is doing my head in to be honest. I feel like I'm going off my head with it all and I'm due back in work at the end of the month. Scared isn't even close to how I'm feeling right now!! Sorry for ranting guys xx Felix