Well, I did it. I told my wife that I am a CD. I just recently accepted it myself and did not want to keep it from her. I love her very much and we are very honest with eachother. We are a very close couple and she is very open minded. Her initial reaction was one of overall acceptence...until it sunk in. I think it took awhile to process. After a tearfilled discussion, she is still accepting of it. It will just take awhile for her to really process the idea. We will get there in baby steps.
I love her so much and was so afraid this would hurt our relationship, but I think in the end we will be better for it.
I showed her this forum and she joined right away. This forum helped me accept the CD part of myself and I'm so glad that its here for both she and I.
Thank you for having this forum and for all the members who are so supportive of eachother.