So - we went out for a meal tonight.
A chance to dress up a bit .. and I took my time, Amanda picked out my outfit (loose fitting top and knee length Wallis skirt and peep toe shoes .. 2" heels) and did my eyes .. and we thought I looked pretty neat.
We ordered a pre-dinner white wine spritzer.
The waiter looked at me and asked "Would you like ice sir?"
I said "thanks for the "Sir"", and the poor guy went bright red and apologised. I quickly said "don't worry, you are right after all" and he said "sorry sir ... er ma'am" and disappeared, Two minutes later he was back "So - er .. did you want ice?"
He meant no harm and no offence. He just realised I am a guy and slipped into automatic drive.
I laughed but .... I had kidded myself I was good at passing .. well .. it seems i'm not. Oh well.