Good post DD. When I read the sort of things you mention I just shake my head and don't bother responding because I know the thread is doomed. I suppose I could tear a strip off someone for being insensitive to GG's but I've seen people ganged up on when they stray from what's acceptable here but I don't wish to be part of that. Hopefully your message will be heard but there will always be someone who comes along and starts it all over again.