Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 25 of 30

Thread: The Problem With Florida

  1. #1
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Posts
    77

    The Problem With Florida

    Is that it is warm all year round! I realize that is why people move here, but up north I spent 9 months of the year shaved bare and did some crazy stuff at tanning salons. When you wear shorts year 'round, you can't shave your legs (unless you are far braver than me).

  2. #2
    Banned Read only
    Join Date
    Apr 2008
    Posts
    1,117
    I can't help you much on the heat, but I'm wondering if hairless legs isn't more about how people see you than how you see yourself.

    What I mean by that is if someone sees you for the first time and you don't have hair on your legs, then they won't know any different (unless of course you have hair everywhere else).

  3. #3
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Posts
    77
    I can see that point, but my kids live here and I'll see them every 3 weeks as opposed to every 3 months. They (and their dear mother) definitely know I should have hair on my legs, chest, underarms, etc., and they love to go swimming.

  4. #4
    Joanie sterling12's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2005
    Location
    Florida
    Posts
    3,420
    Darlin' a lot of us live down here, we shave our legs, we shave our arms. Eventually you will reach a point where you just don't care. Trust me 999 out of a 1000, don't care what you do and they just won't notice. You got "Golf Buddies?" Check it out...at least half the men you play golf with won't have any hair on their legs either, some for medical problems, some people just aren't hairy, some people....who knows?

    I've been shaved for over three years, and the only one 's who noticed were: 1.) an ex-GF who was just starting her career as a nurse and spent time examining everybody's body. 2.) My Drunk Neighbor, who gets "focused" on my legs and blurts out something at The 7/11. The results? Basically nothing, told The GF, "I don't like hair on my bod." Told The Drunk the same...plus; he forgot he said it, by the time he sobered up.

    Final suggestion, tell them you hangin' out down at Gold's Gym. They will think your emulating the Roidheads. You want no hair cause' it interferes with your "posing."

    Peace and Love, Joanie

  5. #5
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Posts
    77
    I guess I could just wear long pants when needed... a little more encouragement and I might take the plunge! I do love the feeling of being smooth.

    I think I am going to go to the tanning salon this afternoon in my bikini. One session will give me subtle lines and I can erase them before the kids come next month with one or two more....

  6. #6
    Redneck Gurl Steff26's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Location
    Tampa, FL
    Posts
    36

    Kids

    Quote Originally Posted by PrettyGiGi View Post
    I can see that point, but my kids live here and I'll see them every 3 weeks as opposed to every 3 months. They (and their dear mother) definitely know I should have hair on my legs, chest, underarms, etc., and they love to go swimming.
    How do they know you are "supposed" to have hair. Not trying to be a smart alec, but I live in the Tampa Bay area, have never had hair on my legs since my 9 year old was born, and she never said a word. Kids these days are a taught to be more acceptable to society. I was born in 1980, and it was a lot different then. You would be surprised.

  7. #7
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Posts
    77
    Well I've had hair every time I've taken them swimming since they were born...

  8. #8
    Banned Read only
    Join Date
    Apr 2008
    Posts
    1,117
    If they say something, just look surprised and say "I don't know what you're talking about" in a nonchalent way. Kids have the attention span of about 3 nanoseconds... If you look cool about it, they'll soon be jumping in the pool without another thought.

  9. #9
    Silver Member Amy Hepker's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2006
    Location
    St. Petersburg, FL
    Posts
    3,229
    Well, I guess you just have to figure out what you want. I have my 13 year old son living with me. He knows all about me and my thing. He does not care if I have hair on my arms or legs, just that I should not wear certain things like girls sandals.
    Ladies have a GREAT time!
    Smile GOD LOVES you!!!
    GOD BLESS US ALL!!!
    AMY Hepker

    ROSES ARE RED
    VIOLETS ARE BLUE
    I'LL BE ME
    AND YOU BE YOU

  10. #10
    Junior Member ashleyinwpb's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2006
    Location
    West Palm Beach
    Posts
    54

    No hair here, haha

    I was born in 1980 as well, from age 12-16 I sshaved my legs for bicycle racing and once my friends got over the fact I shaved they never said a word, I live in West Palm Beach Fl. It's funny because little did they know I am a CD. I now live in the same town and save my legs agan, this time because I am comfy with my fem side and I am training for triathlons. My fiance is fine with it and is very supportive too. I have big bad ass calves and most people admire my SHAVED legs than point, guys and girls. I CD at the gym too. I wrote a thread yesterday about it, called at the gym. Don't worry about your kids or ex wife.

  11. #11
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Oct 2005
    Posts
    1,772
    Why can't you shave your legs? I shave my legs, wear women's open toe sandals, and wear red nail polish on my toenails 24/7. When people ask about my shaved legs, I tell them that they feel better when I wear pantyhose.

    Jamie

    Quote Originally Posted by PrettyGiGi View Post
    Is that it is warm all year round! I realize that is why people move here, but up north I spent 9 months of the year shaved bare and did some crazy stuff at tanning salons. When you wear shorts year 'round, you can't shave your legs (unless you are far braver than me).
    You will become stronger in the ways of the Pink Fog. May the Pink Fog guide you and be with you now and forever.

  12. #12
    Platinum Member Angie G's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2006
    Location
    just west of syracuse n.y.
    Posts
    22,888
    I'm in N.Y. and wear short in the summer and my legs are alway shaved hun.
    Angie

  13. #13
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    May 2008
    Posts
    1,396

    No Problem in Florida

    I live in Ft. Lauderdale and shave from the eyebrows down.

    I wear short sleeve's and shorts and no one says a thing.

  14. #14
    Junior Member tamara's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    Miami
    Posts
    58
    Pretty GiGi

    In general, I agree with everybody in the post. You should not care about what other peopke thinks.
    However, if the decision involves your kids, then it is a strong and very personal decision. I do not know the type of relationship you have with your ex, and how she would react if she finds out, but if you think that it could interfere in your relationship with your kids, then you have to balance the benefits and possible consequences very well before taking such a step.

  15. #15
    Miss Conception Karren H's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2005
    Location
    South Western PA
    Posts
    24,708
    I hate heat... and will never ever move south of the mason-Dixon line again!!! More fun i the winter... More fem clothing and accessories!!! I can't wait till summer is over!! lol
    Current Obsession - Breasts and Lingerie!

    .......My Photos

  16. #16
    Mrs Peel, We're needed jennifer41356's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2006
    Location
    Dallas, Texas
    Posts
    706
    I do , I dont give a rats ass what people think, and I have never had anyone say anything, so try it ...it is awesome

  17. #17
    DawnRodgers DawnRodgers's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2005
    Location
    Central Florida
    Posts
    462
    Been in Florida for 10 years now. Keep whole body shaved all of the time - legs, chest, underarms. Go swimming and wear shorts and tank tops frequently. Nobody has ever said anything or appeared to have noticed. Try it, you'll love it.

  18. #18
    Lux et Veritas Stormgirl's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2004
    Location
    WA
    Posts
    2,056
    Next time a hurricane comes,we shall have a dressing hurricane party.
    Merry

    HRT since 2009

  19. #19
    Member rian's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2008
    Location
    middle East
    Posts
    444

    Smile shaving legs

    I am having the same problem , I live in the middle east and shaving legs is an obvious mark so whenever i shave I keep my trousers long time and no swimming activity as well.The most danger activity is when my wife notices since she does not know ...then I have to creat a resonable excuse .....

  20. #20
    Junior Member Jenny Ann's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    San Diego, CA
    Posts
    33
    You can always tell your kids you are training for a triathlon and shaving your legs and arms gives you more speed. :-)

  21. #21
    Shy :) Scotty's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2006
    Location
    Venus
    Posts
    1,555
    I shaved my legs the other day, wear shorts around. I don't care what other people think - walk into the grocery store and nobody seems to notice

    It's about self-confidence, nothing more....I see other guys with shaved legs a LOT.
    Scottie
    You must dare to disassociate yourself from those who would delay your journey... Leave, depart, if not physically, then mentally.
    Go your own way, quietly, undramatically, and venture toward trueness at last.

    -- Vernon Howard


  22. #22
    New Member karina68's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Location
    palm bay florida
    Posts
    16
    Hi i work in retail and wear shorts to work and except for a couple of silly comments (from co-workers) of which i replied that they were just jealous no problems. I also took the family to Sea World back in April for a little vacation ( i live on the east coast of Fl ) and i was wearing shorts the whole time with my legs shaved and we had a great time

  23. #23
    Banned Read only
    Join Date
    Dec 2005
    Posts
    1,307
    I'm noticing lots of guys with shaved legs lately. Or else they just don't have any hair.

  24. #24
    Raven
    Join Date
    Nov 2006
    Location
    New Jersey
    Posts
    34
    My body hair is shaved all the time. I coach football and wear shorts all the time in the summer. Nobody notices and never says anything. I have even noticed a few others i coach with doing the same now.

    I really wouldn't worry about it.
    Raven


    If I could start again
    A million miles away
    I would keep myself
    I would find a way

    (Trent Reznor)

  25. #25
    Content and Happy
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Florida
    Posts
    592
    I live in Central Florida and love the warmth. However, we do have really nice winters. As for shaving, hair is not welcome on my body anytime except on my head. I think most people are more confused when someone goes back and forth between shaving and not shaving. I decided a long time ago, I'm the one who has to be happy.

    Lanore
    [SIZE="3"]Lanore[/SIZE]

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  


Check out these other hot web properties:
Catholic Personals | Jewish Personals | Millionaire Personals | Unsigned Artists | Crossdressing Relationship
BBW Personals | Latino Personals | Black Personals | Crossdresser Chat | Crossdressing QA
Biker Personals | CD Relationship | Crossdressing Dating | FTM Relationship | Dating | TG Relationship


The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs.
We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.

Browse Crossdressers By State