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Backstory -
A friend of mine who knows that my SO and I met online has been sending us links to profiles on various dating sites and ads on craigslist to get our feedback. I guess he thinks that whatever filtering mechanism allowed us to find each other might work one step removed.
So far the advice we have given him in regards to the way profiles were written or the responses he's received have been dead on, so it has really reinforced his trust in our judgement.
Here's the problem (and why I'm posting this here); he sent me a craigslist link today and when I opened it I found a well-written ad for a "woman seeking men" and a photograph of someone who I recognized from this website.
The personal ad says nothing about the person being TS/TG, which is the poster's choice (though not one I personally agree with), but now I find myself on the horns of a dilemma. If I just tell him to pass, he'll ask me why, because we have always given him logical reasons in the past. Or I can tell him that the person in the ad is a TG/TS individual, which should be none of my business, and let him make his own choice.
Of course it is also possible that the picture was just stolen off the net, and that it has nothing to do with the member here. I'm just very uncomfortable outing someone (the person who posted the ad) even if they put themselves in that position.
I find this whole situation very confusing; it's literally giving me heartburn and I don't really know why.
Any suggestions?