Not at work but out in public.
I have kind of a femme look anyways with my hair, eyebrows, just a little bit of natural boob, and shaved legs.
I normally wear light colored tees and womens shorts and hose. Lately I added women's sandals to that [flat ones]
Very seldom does anyone say anything or look twice at me.
Thing is, it is like I am always self conscious.
I don't know if it is cause I am one of those people who doesn't really "pass" well for male *or* female. People have seen me as either. Sometimes I get "sir'ed" other times "ma'am".
I just get tired of always being worried about how people might see me. I know there is the whole "you get used to being who you are and forget about it" but that hasn't happened yet.
What is going on?