Seriously, how many here would out a CDing friend to others?
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Seriously, how many here would out a CDing friend to others?
Last edited by DonnaT; 07-22-2008 at 04:37 PM.
DonnaT
I hope it turns out to be zero.
Is there a reason behind this thread?
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Unequivocally NEVER! To CD or not to CD is a most personal affair. If that person wants to come out that choice should be hers and hers alone. For someone else to out her is a violation of her individual prerogative and, in the case of a friend outing her, a violation of a sacred trust, IMHO.Originally Posted by DonnaT
Last edited by TommiTN; 07-22-2008 at 05:08 PM.
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This is a hard question, because yes, I would tell other CDs, but I would not tell other people who are not. So, I am unsure of how to vote.
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Some folk just can't keep a secret even when they have the same one.
Would I? I would hope not.
No. As simple as that.
No, Just a professional courtesy.
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Why would you ask this? Bad experience?
The answer is no anyway.
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Absolutely, Unequivically------no Way
No Absolutely not
No i would not and have caught myself almost saying someones real name to others that did not know their male name. But interestingly I have had other CDers give out my wifes and my real names, city I lived in and other personal details about us to people that did not already know. I even have had my male name and town I lived in posted. And I live in a small town where with a few details you could know who I am. It is like when some CD/TGs are around other CD/TG's they do not think. And some of the ones that are out or part way out can be the worse. It is like they do not care about others finding out about them so they treat your information the same way. Sorry any personal information should only be given out by the CD or with permission. I will not even give out a femme email address without permission.
And I do not care about the affects of being outed on myself, it is my wife and kids that should not have to suffer because someone else outed me. At times it makes me want to crawl back in a hole and believe I am the only one and not interact with other CD/TG/TS's.
KimberlyS-CD
joe in a skirt. Being myself not trying to be some other CDer
Just trying to find a balance for my son and myself.
Standard disclaimer: Going out of the house was right for me, it may or may not be right for you. If you've got no desire to leave the house, that's fine, I'm not trying to push you out the door. But for those who've been yearning to do so, I just want to let you know the world may not be as scary a place as you think.
Donna no.............. no way...... see that i could not do how ever one might find out that a Friend is a cross dresser is not important .... what is important is trust and respect ... the person has a right to tell or not tell whom ever they might want to tell or not tell ...........
Amy, what gives you the right to out another CDer even to another CDer without permission??
Talk about why many of us are afraid to tell anyone anything.
KimberlyS-CD
joe in a skirt. Being myself not trying to be some other CDer
Just trying to find a balance for my son and myself.
Standard disclaimer: Going out of the house was right for me, it may or may not be right for you. If you've got no desire to leave the house, that's fine, I'm not trying to push you out the door. But for those who've been yearning to do so, I just want to let you know the world may not be as scary a place as you think.
Absolutely NOT, a person's privacy is paramount. If he wanted others to know, he would tell them, it isn't our place to do that.
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DonnaT
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Great way to me excommunicated . I believe there is a ritual ceremony for this
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First a groom then a bride. Never again.
I can hold a secret especially some thing this big.
never it's not my place. Just a professional courtesy as well .
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NO....It's just good Karma not to.
I'd be amazed if anybody here would do that. That's so wrong.
Dawn
[SIZE=2]I'm glad to see that there are no YES votes so far, we seem to be an honourable lot, or at least we say we are! What on earth would be the motive to out a sister anyway?[/SIZE]
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The question is contradictory. A friend wouldn't.
You're asking this crowd? Not a sample reflective of the general public, I think.
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That would come under the heading of gossip. And gossiping has a way of coming back and biting you. So no, that's a private thing, I'd not tell.
why would we that would be wrong
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