Seriously, how many here would out a CDing friend to others?
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Seriously, how many here would out a CDing friend to others?
Last edited by DonnaT; 07-22-2008 at 04:37 PM.
DonnaT
I hope it turns out to be zero.
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Unequivocally NEVER! To CD or not to CD is a most personal affair. If that person wants to come out that choice should be hers and hers alone. For someone else to out her is a violation of her individual prerogative and, in the case of a friend outing her, a violation of a sacred trust, IMHO.
Last edited by TommiTN; 07-22-2008 at 05:08 PM.
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This is a hard question, because yes, I would tell other CDs, but I would not tell other people who are not. So, I am unsure of how to vote.
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Some folk just can't keep a secret even when they have the same one.
Would I? I would hope not.
No, Just a professional courtesy.
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Why would you ask this? Bad experience?
The answer is no anyway.
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Absolutely, Unequivically------no Way
No i would not and have caught myself almost saying someones real name to others that did not know their male name. But interestingly I have had other CDers give out my wifes and my real names, city I lived in and other personal details about us to people that did not already know. I even have had my male name and town I lived in posted. And I live in a small town where with a few details you could know who I am. It is like when some CD/TGs are around other CD/TG's they do not think. And some of the ones that are out or part way out can be the worse. It is like they do not care about others finding out about them so they treat your information the same way. Sorry any personal information should only be given out by the CD or with permission. I will not even give out a femme email address without permission.
And I do not care about the affects of being outed on myself, it is my wife and kids that should not have to suffer because someone else outed me. At times it makes me want to crawl back in a hole and believe I am the only one and not interact with other CD/TG/TS's.
KimberlyS-CD
joe in a skirt. Being myself not trying to be some other CDer
Just trying to find a balance for my son and myself.
Standard disclaimer: Going out of the house was right for me, it may or may not be right for you. If you've got no desire to leave the house, that's fine, I'm not trying to push you out the door. But for those who've been yearning to do so, I just want to let you know the world may not be as scary a place as you think.
KimberlyS-CD
joe in a skirt. Being myself not trying to be some other CDer
Just trying to find a balance for my son and myself.
Standard disclaimer: Going out of the house was right for me, it may or may not be right for you. If you've got no desire to leave the house, that's fine, I'm not trying to push you out the door. But for those who've been yearning to do so, I just want to let you know the world may not be as scary a place as you think.
The question is contradictory. A friend wouldn't.
You're asking this crowd? Not a sample reflective of the general public, I think.
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That would come under the heading of gossip. And gossiping has a way of coming back and biting you. So no, that's a private thing, I'd not tell.
I love to gossip. I can also keep a secret. If I learn something in confidence my lips are sealed forever. Someone who does something really stupid is fair game for gossip, someone who dresses at home or with a support group is not.
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Yikes, how could anyone say yes?
Keely
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I just think that would be wrong.I wouldn't want someone to out me. Why would I do that to someone else? I believe you reap what you sow.
[SIZE="3"]NO WAY, NO HOW!!..There are too many things that would result from being outed..Loss of friends, jobs, family and those are just the few right off the bat...I couldn't concieve of a reason where I'd do something like that, even to someone I had issues with...I woudn't do it...and I hope that it woudn't happen to me..[/SIZE]
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i would never out anyone that is there thing to do not mine . its hard enough to come out yourself . but to be outed by someone else is mean to say the least .
Yeah i would tell everybody i know. Just kidding i don't tell ppl my friends secrets that would be wrong. So the Real answer is No.
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How would you like to be outed to someone against your will?