As a sex act I really enjoy humilation, but in real life I do not want to be humiliated, but you have to have a sence of humor to dress otherwise some comments can really hurt.
I just blow off comments from people that try to down grade me in public and I don't show the hurt I may have. I will not give them the satisfaction of thinking they have succeded in humiliating me.
I am proud of who I am and what I wear.