I wanted to ask how other girls here were able to work up the courage to finally come face to face with the public in your areas. I live in a small town and once a week on a weekend night"late" , go for a drive to a destination like a park or a large lot to go for a stroll but people are not around. I would love to just let go of the worry but in the town I live in everyone knows everybody and me being a counselor in the community, well it could get complicated. My wife is supportive of me and knows that I go out to the extents Ive mentioned but I wouldnt want to put her in any uncomfortable situations. She is ok with the cding but I know she has limits and I respect them.One night I almost got the courage up to go through a drive through to get a bite to eat but backed off at the last minute.Ive noticed that since I have embraced this part of my life more fully , I have become much more daring.Six months and prior I wouldnt have even considered going onto the back porch. I would very much like to hear from other girls on the forum their ideas on this matter--lots of hugs and thanks--wendy