Hi girls, well I really don't want to transfer my problems to you all but I need a bit of moral support. Seems my wife of 7 years can not get past the crossdressing v. being gay debate. she had previously been very supportive of my dressing but now has had a change of heart. Just a little background, I am a straight crossdresser with no interest in men. I don't resent her in the least for that but I have put everything on hold until she decides what she is going to do.
Last night was the first night that we had been apart in 12 years, save business trips ect. That really hurt. I am trying to give her space to come to her own resolution, fighting the urge to call her cell phone at 3:30am. This whole thing really sucks bad, and is proof that if you with hold secretes in the beginning of a relationship that it will come back to bite you in the butt!!