Susan, maybe that can be a topic of discussion in the private GM section. Just a thought . . . maybe those of you who get it can enlighten the others. When we say it, we're called thin-skinned whiners. Maybe if you pass the word amongst each other, more people will listen.
We've said it a million times - our section is open to others for discussion, questions and even just goofing around, but we always get the "I never come to this side because I don't think I'm welcome here" comments. Everyone is welcome - there's even a sticky here welcoming all ("The Welcome Mat"). If people were really interested in what we're about, they'd drop by and read it before jumping in and making assumptions. All we ask is that people please READ the threads before responding and if the thread is for FtMs only to answer, then refrain from responding or voting if you're not FtM.
As Tamara would say, it's not rocket science.