The urge to CD isn't going away... Been there, tried that, and spent a lot of $$$ rebuilding 'trashed' wardrobes to please 'indifferent' or non-supportive SO's..
Was upfront with my supportive SO, about two months into our relationship.. It has been nothing but 'wonderful' since then.. I was worried at first, even embarrassed at times, but have come to the conclusion that a totally supportive SO is the 'only' way to go..
Realistically, I don't 'pass', but we do go for rides, and walking in remote areas.. almost had a heart attack when she pulled up in front of a local convenience store, with me in the passengers seat 'fully dressed'... WHAT A TRIP!!!
I believe I was wearing the outfit then, that I'm wearing in my avatar.. WHEW!
There are many understanding GG's out there... Hold in there; you'll find one.. Promise!